Dudes like that sound super insecure. They’re not worth the air they breathe let alone the time you spend on them. Their insecurity is their Hangup not yours
It's because they're insecure and feel like if the girl is too confident, then she will leave or treat him like shit cuz she knows she could do better. So they try to lower their self confidence.
It's just a classic way of manipulating... Crushing your confidence ( and making up for it later ) so that they always have the upper hand... I know a lot of guys do it... Why? Cuz they're insecure as f*ck
They also do it to keep you on your toes and always seeking validation from them and therefore always trying to please them because you don't feel good enough..
Let's stop there. Those are the men you women choose. I don't know men who make such efforts. I don't even do such things. Instead of trying to figure them out, it's best to leave them in the past where they belong
My ex did that… I am much more aware now of what to look for in a person. I think it is because they are insecure because they now they can’t compete with you. But please run if they start to do that because it only gets worse.
That's a tactic used to manipulate women into sticking around and thinking they are with a good catch instead of a shit bag. Women who fall for these type of bastards should learn how to find a good guy and not look for superficial qualities first like looks, money, status, and other bullshit like that.
Insecure people will sometimes try to drag others down to make themselves feel better about themselves... kind of sounds like that is what's happening here.
What makes a girl beautiful is a personality. If any guy does this to a girl he's is guilty of mental and emotional abuse. Period. I will never fat shame or call a girl ugly.
That's so weird to me. If a man likes s girl that's why he asks her out. Perhaps the ones you've met have some issues they need to solve with a psychologist
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I don't think this is really a thing. I mean yeah like I'm sure it happens but most guys are not like that.
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no idea really...
never been a douchebag to women before
so it would be very difficult for me to explain the actions of someone I am nothing like
Dudes like that sound super insecure. They’re not worth the air they breathe let alone the time you spend on them. Their insecurity is their Hangup not yours
It's manipulation, the more they can make you feel bad about yourself the more you feel you need them. They are fucking creepy if you ask me.
" I would rather be alone forever than with any man who does this but it seems like they all do to an extent."
What kind of fucking guys are you hanging out with? Losers? Assholes? Upgrade your company.
It's because they're insecure and feel like if the girl is too confident, then she will leave or treat him like shit cuz she knows she could do better. So they try to lower their self confidence.
It's just a classic way of manipulating... Crushing your confidence ( and making up for it later ) so that they always have the upper hand... I know a lot of guys do it... Why? Cuz they're insecure as f*ck
They also do it to keep you on your toes and always seeking validation from them and therefore always trying to please them because you don't feel good enough..
Let's stop there. Those are the men you women choose. I don't know men who make such efforts. I don't even do such things.
Instead of trying to figure them out, it's best to leave them in the past where they belong
My ex did that… I am much more aware now of what to look for in a person. I think it is because they are insecure because they now they can’t compete with you. But please run if they start to do that because it only gets worse.
That's a tactic used to manipulate women into sticking around and thinking they are with a good catch instead of a shit bag. Women who fall for these type of bastards should learn how to find a good guy and not look for superficial qualities first like looks, money, status, and other bullshit like that.
It's never happened to me, so I can't relate. All the men I have talked to and are friends with are gentlemen.
What type of men are you attracted to? Good men don’t do this.
Insecure people will sometimes try to drag others down to make themselves feel better about themselves... kind of sounds like that is what's happening here.
Because he doesn't want his girlfriend to get stolen 🤣
So others won't be interested in them.
they are really insecure, so then they don't have to worry.
What makes a girl beautiful is a personality. If any guy does this to a girl he's is guilty of mental and emotional abuse. Period. I will never fat shame or call a girl ugly.
well that's one sign that tells you that you dated a turd and that you should probably move on.
That's so weird to me. If a man likes s girl that's why he asks her out. Perhaps the ones you've met have some issues they need to solve with a psychologist
I don't think this is really a thing. I mean yeah like I'm sure it happens but most guys are not like that.
It’s a manipulation tactic to try and hold onto the woman.
Narcissists and abusers do this to lower their partners self esteem and gain control over them. It's a manipulation tactic.