What makes a person attractive to you? (good traits)?

[Hafia_xo]

[SueShe]

If I was into dating or even looking for a partner, he should have a number of qualities. To me, the most important things about a person, regardless whether this person is to date, to talk to or just to be with are:

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Positive thinking
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Truthfulness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Body hygiene

That about summarizes what I seek in another person. I know that will be difficult, but I can still hope, no?

What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage. That is totally not relevant to me.

Now, as I said, those assets would only be interesting to me if I was dating, which I am not and which I am not interested to in the coming 5+ years. My studies and my degree take precedence over dating.

[Havthrills]

What about having half that list? 🤔 🤣

[SueShe]

@Havthrills Argh, you put me in a difficult position here :-)

[Havthrills]

🤣🤣 I was kidding but isn't truthfulness and honesty the same? Also positive attitude and positive thinkingHere is where the men and women's minds think differently. Not to be rude, I'm just curious.

[SueShe]

@Havthrills You are right. Truthfulness and honesty could be considered the same or very similar. The same does apply for positive thinking and positive attitude. I guess by having to review my list, I am getting closer to mediocrity with my choice :-(

[Havthrills]

I didn't mean to ruin it. I'm sorry. 🥺🌹

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[dustybiker]

They treat people well (minus an off day here and there)

[WonderBell99]

The first thing I notice about someone is their appearance. Mostly how they carry themselves and take care of their health. I notice their grooming habits, ie, do they shave their facial hair? (I prefer clean shaven or light stubble on men. I do not like beards even though they can be groomed well). I also notice their fashion sense. The clothes they wear, their shoes etc. Then, I notice their hair and hairstyle.

I also love it when guys smile. I think it looks adorable. I would not want my partner to have a RBF all the time.. I would at least prefer he smiles every day.

When it comes to personality, I observe how they treat others around them. If they are rude to someone for no reason whatsoever, that is a huge red flag and a dealbreaker. I would not go out with them again. I would strongly prefer my partner to be faithful, hard working, respectful, compassionate, passionate, affectionate, intelligent, honest and assertive.

[MCheetah]

For a woman:
1. Classy
2. Kind (treats others with respect)
3. Caring and compassionate (treats her man well)
4. Actually likes and respects men (anti-feminist)
5. Intelligent
6. Have a strong sense of humor, or funny
7. Monogamous and faithful
8. Honest and a strong communicator
9. Hard working
10. Hold themselves accountable for their own life and actions (doesn't make excuses or blames others for her failures)
11. Feminine
12. Sexually modest (not slutty, but not a prude either)

[VIVANT]

The one and only most important thing absolutely 💯 is Honesty bc if they are not faking, I’ll know for sure if they genuinely do or do not have the other traits I’m looking for.

[VIVANT]

I think @SueShe covered the rest for me & for probably most normal people 😂

[FilmGuy93]

Soft, tender heart. Creative. Passionate. Kind. Honest.

[Havthrills]

Kind caring. I guess someone already said boobs. Are you asking about looks or personality? Honest is a big thing.

[DancingQueen16]

Here's the definition of my perfect guy: blonde hair, blue eyes, smart, funny, kind, thoughtful, sweet, good listener, likes animals the list goes on

[clampfan101]

The things that make a good Christian
Intelligence and creativity
Fun and similar interests
Looks (I’m not too picky and like multiple types.)

[AssholeNumberOne]

Being soft and innocent. No disrespect to those guys tho

[BLP11520]

Hair, smile, eyes general well groomed look

[MRME6]

Back in high school it was looks but now it's changed to religious, personality and how compatable she would be with me. Intelligent and her voice.

[convo_king89]

Nice boobs for one thing, and if she is wearing some basic panties that also turns me on.

[BarryLiverstone]

Starts with how they look and continues with healthy habits

[Pinay_ako]

Genuinely nice

[AddylynnNightingale]

Emotional intelligence

[Avatar74]

Pretty face, lovely eyes and importantly their personality and warmth.

[GreatnessBack]

Being nice to me. I'm simple.

[Nikki1989]

SueShe already nailed it.

[boredgal]

clean nails, kindness

[LavLavLuv]

their good vibes

[Dreamclouds]

Face, beautiful face... and warmth in eyes.