Have you ever been scared or afraid of your significant other?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever been scared or afraid of the person you love the love of your life your significant other? Have you ever been afraid of them sometimes on a daily basis? For me currently I am I'm really scared and afraid of her. Feel free to answer this anonymously if you want

For me it's because of all her cheating and her emotional abuse and her family especially her mom sister and friends cover up her cheating. It's so bad I'm afraid to even look her name up online afraid of what I'll find out. It gets scary at times a constant fear with her. And to make matters worse she has a habit of calling me toxic when I been loyal and faithful to her for all these years. This isn't the first time she's cheated. She's cheated on me for years with different guys. And the fact that her family her mom (D. D. G) her sister (D. L. L) and her friends (M. S. M) & (A. K.) keep covering for her it makes things worse.

Updates

1 y

I caught her planning to backstab me and blindside me for 2 days now. I won't divulge with what but I caught her making fake accounts on multiple sites plotting shit

[D_Bone_Steak]

I was with this Japanese chick and she tried a lot of bullshit. Constantly would threaten suicide if she wasn't getting what she wanted. Tried to call my work and get me in trouble. Talked me into slapping her during sex and then immediately tried to use it as leverage to force me to do what she wants by threatening to tell people I slapped her. And yeah... a total shit show.

She finally broke a mirror and was trying to cut herself and my friend and I had to grab her and throw her out. She stalked me for quite a while trying to fuck with my new relationships.

[Guy13]

And you are in this relationship why?

[Asker]

Because as fucked up as it is I still love her

[Guy13]

Alright, best with it all and your peace of mind.

[Asker]

which i don't have

[Guy13]

She has a sister the same way?

[BlueScorpio]

Thankfully no, but you should definitely leave. She manipulative and her behavior won't change cause those around her enable her to keep doing it. You need to put your foot down and say enough is enough.

[BlueScorpio]

She doesn't respect you, the fact you're staying with her probably makes her see you as spineless and weak and all too easy to step on. You can do better, it's better to be alone than in fear and heartache.

[jennifer_bloom]

I've never been with a bad person but I've been afraid of future physical contact cause of the vulnerability and the possibility of pregnancy which I thought would be painful.

[Nikki1989]

Nope, he's a sweetheart.