Who would you choose? Why?

There are these 2 boys that I care about a LOT, yet I don't know who I care about more...

I've known this boy, let's call him P, for 2-3 years, and this other boy, let's call him J, for 1 year, I talk to P more, yet I see J more often. (That may sound weird, but it's okay!) I'm not sure whether to ask them about having a poly relationship or not, they know each other by the way. Please help. if you need any more info just message me.

Who would you choose? Why?
Who would you choose? Why?
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