PLS URGENT :i finished bfs laundry, a work trip, while hanging I found a womens baby tee? Is there a reason that won't hurt me, is there 1 pls help?

[Talia808]

i feel like throwing up because i can't think of a innocent reason. He has never seemed the type to not be loyal, he is laying in bed right now and has no idea I feel like puking. Is there any good reason, if there is pls tell me because I can't think of one and I don't know if I should start packing my stuff, am I over-reacting, is there any possible innocent reason this is in his dirty travel cloths from his business trip. pls answer soon. I truly need help figuring out what I'm going to do?

I love him, but if he is cheating on me I will leave and never see him again , can anyone think of a possible innocent reason or has anyway gone home with a womens item of clothing after traveling on a work trip that was not due to a sexual relationship?

[SueShe]

Before jumping to conclusions, calm down and think what the possible options are available. Did he perhaps see his sister? Did he purchase it for you? Was it a present for you or someone else and he misplaced it in his bag to be with his soiled clothes?

If you are unable to find a satisfactory reply, then you have no other choice but to confront him. However, before accusing, make sure that you have all your arguments ready and review each one carefully.

Best is not to wait before you confront him but it is important to remain calm and keep your composure. Best is to write down all your questions and arguments and go through them one by one.

Depending on how long you have been in a relation with this person, you should know and be able to read his reactions. When questioning him, look straight into his eyes and see if he is attempting to avoid your look. Also check how his hands are reacting to his statements; if he gets nervous or if his statement seems not to match his behavior.

There is no avoiding the confrontation if you think that he is not telling the truth. However, you must be prepared to get a strong denial.

Good luck.

[Talia808]

thank you so much

[EmmaMary]

Just what is a "woman's baby tee"?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO. lol

[Anonymous]

Did he do laundry while away? I presume you're taking about women underwear? Perhaps it got mixed in somehow.

Personally, either way, it would take more than this to break up my relationship although I'd be on notice. And I'd probably question them.

[Guy13]

Sorry to hear that but people cheat. Talk and work it out. 13 year old reaction is over the top. I would go to the point and don’t investigate him. Ask him about it….

[ArtemisSilver]

Using a shared laundry facility. I often used to wind up with random items stuck to mine. Usually socks or underwear, a small shirt is possible.

Just ask him about it.

[Shamalien]

Don’t jump to conclusions. Mention you found it and allow him a good chance to explain himself

[JPresidente]

Could be something he bought for you and threw it in his luggage?

[Gooddaze]

Ask him pretty simple really.

[Anonymous]

No, sorry.

[Talia808]

is it your opinion it's a pretty solid proof he cheated on me?