Fist time pregnant single mom, would stretching myself down there help me not rip?

[Anonymous]

Stressing and my sisters stories don't help! Basically wondering if trying big things in me would help!

Sis needed stitches for all her 3 kids and it took her so long to heal and so much pain after. She always talks about her pelvic floor and working out.

So wonder if I can work myself too in other ways?

[Red_Arrow]

Funny that you recognize that a baby's head is bigger than a dick. Because a speculum opened all the way is smaller than many dicks. And I have never even heard of a toy as large as a baby's head. Even if any of that nonsense worked, it would not compare to the stretching by the baby. Also, It is common that the perineum tears during birth and stitches may be required.

[Asker]

Lmao a speculum is smaller then many dicks. Nope
Not saying I want my body with a huge hole but I wanna spractoce stretching knowing what it feels like.
You pervs just change this into me using a baby sized dildo!

[Red_Arrow]

My wife was a nurse so I have seen speculums and though it does open wide, the stretching is just enough to get a clear view and many dicks are larger.
You say now you want to know what it feels like, but you said in the beginning that you were trying to help prevent ripping.
And I have not suggested you use a huge dildo. In fact I have said that you really cannot do anything to stretch it out enough to avoid tearing. Your question was "would stretching myself down there help me not rip?" and you called me a perv for answering.

[Asker]

Sure some but not most boys 😜

[Asker]

Honestly your all pervs here so... Why not say no it won't work not an essay!
Bet your wife would hate you on here

[Red_Arrow]

I bet she would hate you, not me. And you are the one sounding like a perv. I see you also chose to speak only anonymously.

[Asker]

Kinda hard not to when I asked a question that way!
Omg I'm such a coward for not wanting men constantly messaging me or following me online.

Your just mad I'm not acting like you think I should.

[Red_Arrow]

I am not mad. Just disappointed that you are not acting more intelligently.

[Asker]

If I want brains I'd ask the AI! Not wait for brain dead boys to answer.
Also for your essay I'm making sure you don't get mho!
I know people type a lot just so the site will give them mho!

[WintersDaughter]

A perineum massage could help prevent tearing. However, water and pushing positions are the best way to prevent tearing.

The #1 way to prevent tearing while birthing in the hospital is to NOT push laying down and tell your doctors you don't want an episiotomy. Pushing in the squat position, hands and knees, leaning against something are all good ways to use gravity and open your pelvis more to get the baby out.

An episiotomy is when they pre tear you, the idea is to prevent harsh tears by making a surgical cut. Usually used if doctors think you need "help" getting baby out. It is NOT evidence backed and is one of the only ways to severely tear.

However, my best advice for you is to face your fear of tearing. You might tear, that's okay. A natural tear is easier for the body to heal than a surgical one. Research tearing while giving birth, read stories (positive ones! Not horror stories), look into the ways to help your body heal from a tear.

[WintersDaughter]

I'm a birth worker, if you have more questions feel free to ask!

[JonesT10Apr]

glad to know about these

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure. I had to get cut down there with a scalpel to help the baby out. Very sensitive even yet, can't orgasm due to the scar tissue

[Finchie40]

Keep having sex with the father of your child , that helped my wife when she was pregnant with our kids’ I was t complaining lol

[Asker]

Kinda was raped so... No guy sex! Honestly it's always bad too.

[Finchie40]

I’m sorry to hear you were raped , so yes stick to getting a dildo or something to help release some pressure

[sean1234]

Raped?🥶 Kind of?🤔 I guess that is none of our business.

[PetLover24]

How exactly were you "kinda was raped" - that's so insulting to women who are raped.

[sean1234]

Eating right and exercise is all I can say for now. Too many women are raped these days. 1 is too much.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Talk to your doctor for advice

[DrPepper12]

Kegels WILL help but despite it all you still may need an episiotomy. Sorry but that's the truth.

[Nerdvana]

How would you stretch yourself out?

[Asker]

Not sure but probably with help from my girlfriend and some toys. Maybe a speculum? So never tried stretching always the opposite

[Nerdvana]

That might help, but you are having a baby, your pussy is still going to get ripped. Why not guys?

[Asker]

Cause guys are boring and pretty selfish in bed! How do you think I got knocked dup?
Also a tiny dick is nothing to a baby's head! n

[Nerdvana]

You could always use big toys on yourself?

[Red_Arrow]

You find guys boring and selfish in bed, so why are you having sex with them? You have a girlfriend and she is not the one who got you pregnant.

[Asker]

Funny boys always think we have fun getting pregnant. It's called rape!

[Staximus]

Just get a c section instead

[Danny_dan92]

What do you mean?

[Jmmmfi4]

MAYBE TRY TO RIDE A WATERMELON?

[MasterKS]

you should try it!

[noohair]

I am not an ObGyn...

[Asker]

Really some one should be

[In_Trance]

Stop it. ..

[Asker]

Wow says the guy with a gross girl as his picture. Guess you don't want women having knowledge of our bodies!

[jahaims]

Read a book.