How do I talk about my feelings?

[Wubs3000]

I always thought I was good at talking about my feelings, but now I have realized I just let myself get rolled over and I never talk about it until it builds up and I break down on my own, then I restart. There is so much I want to say but I feel suffocated like I can't say anything. In my relationship there is stuff I want to say but I'm not saying it, and I know this is hurting both sides. But I can't get over this. How can I get more comfortable talking about my feelings?

[Noahzaid]

I think for a man to talk about his feelings, he should consider his feelings as logic and explain it in terms of authority.

but considering your age, I think that you should just be straight forward and tell her that you don’t appreciate the things that bother you.

If she reacts in a way that shocks you then you should tell her that this relationship is not going to workout.

As for you, you should understand that you shouldn’t don’t be afraid to lose someone because this is how life is, If it doesn’t fit then shouldn’t be in your life.

[Wubs3000]

My fear is illogical. I know they will respond well, and they are amazing with feelings and incredibly mature, but for some reason I am still scared to talk about my feelings. I feel muted.

[Debbie14217]

talk to a boyfriend