Are these people shitty people?

[Twalli]

They only make friendships with someone of the opposite sex because they want to have sex with them or date them. I can honestly say that I never became a friend of a girl because I wanted to have sex with her or date her. That is not to say that I wasn't attracted to any friends. I was to two, now it's one because I'm dating the other one. We became friends without my sexual attraction being a factor. There are some people I am sexually attracted to who are not my friends because we don't share that many interests.

[MementoMori777]

Yea, when you process it in a way that these people would take advantage of another person simply for a few minutes of fun or whatever is sickening, they don't think of the other person's feelings, that's called selfishness, it's also a very lusty lifestyle, it's an evil mentality

[madgoat]

I wouldn't say shitty, more superficial.

Your approach is more laudable but I wonder if you know yourself as well as you think.

[Twalli]

I regrettably discovered myself at 15

[Jdjfjcjj]

Who's more shitty?

The man who befriends a woman because of his sexual attraction to her?

Or the woman who knows the man's attention, and keeps him around for her benefit?

[Twalli]

She doesn't go after him. I keep people around that become my friends. I don't care why they chose to become my friend.

[NathanDavis]

does it ever work out for them though?

[Twalli]

Generally not, but most relationships don't work out anyway.