If a girl invited you over to have sex would you accept it regardless of who it is?

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I had this whole situation with a boy in the past we were friends with benefits but never actually ended up doing anything and I told about our secret to people and we haven’t spoken in 4-5 months and decided it was for the best to not talk anymore as the feelings were one sided , but I wanna hit him up again and invite him over to fuck but kinda worried he’d tell our friends as we both have mutual friends or not be up for it

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Most guys would say "yes" most of the time (if they knew the girl a bit, rather than it being a total stranger, so they knew it was legit and not a setup for a robbery/assault), but one of the few reasons they might decline (and not all guys would decline for this reason) is if they knew the girl had feelings for him.

If you give a guy sex - even a lot of sex - he will enjoy the sex, but it will NOT make him have feelings for you. He either has feelings for you - and he'd know it right away if he did - or he does not, and if he doesn't, it's almost certain he never will, no matter what you do. So if there is even a tiny part of your brain that thinks that you can win him over with sex, then you are lying to yourself or are incredibly, dangerously naïve. But if HE thinks you're offering him sex to try to win him over, he's likely to turn you down, because he won't want to deal with you being clingy and possessive or even becoming a stalker - I'm not saying you would, per se, but it's not uncommon in such situations.

OpenClose · Accepted Answer

I mean I'd be pretty picky. But part of that "picky" includes friends so I can think of several friends who I'd hop in a car and go have a night with.

Funny story actually. A friend once texted me wanting a bit of something that night. But she told me she hadn't seen Avatar: The Last Airbender. I was like "OK I need to show you the first couple episodes" and we ended up watching that like the whole evening. Lol. Was still a good evening just not what either of us intended.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I wouldn’t, no. And actually, even though there are women I would take up on that offer, I absolutely wouldn’t go for it with any woman with whom I had the history you’re describing.

Seeing you again is not only going to risk reigniting whatever feelings existed before, but y’all didn’t actually do anything, so it’s more likely that you’ll be a tease instead of actually having sex with him which would be wasting his time.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Apparently you can't keep your mouth closed and you're worried about him telling other people... girl please, stop with this nonsense.

If he accepts, he accepts. If not, leave him be. I don't see the point of accepting an invitation for sex when it's been so long. It's clear you have a reason outside of sex.

spartan55 · Answer

You are kind of worried he is going to tell your friends about it, even though YOU told your friends about it before... 😂 Okay... did i miss something there?

JPresidente · Answer

You have to realize that if you do have sex with him, he would more than likely tell his friends. Probably not all the intimate details but he would tell them.

Guardian45 · Answer

NOPE! I'm NOT that desperate, but if I found her attractive that's a different story.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

If it was a grandma no

slatyb · Answer

I would not. Ewww.

dudewithnoname · Answer

I wouldn't mind

Anonymous · Answer

Attention seeker

Anonymous · Answer

F*** no!

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