If a man has a problem with your weight, is he doomed to be dumped?

[lemonette]

Do you think this kind of physical issues can be a problem in relationship?

[Finchie40]

If someone falls out of love with you because you packed on some pounds then they don’t deserve you , someone should love you no matter what , if someone is dependent on someone’s looks to be in a relationship with them , they are in for a rude awakening, and it shows what kind of person they really are , Now if your partner let themselves go and became a total different person and doesn’t look like they use to look then that can be a turn off because they just gave up on themselves but still doesn’t give you an excuse to cheat on them or dump them , You should support them and help them get back in gear , I consider myself a bear come spring and Summer I work out consistently but come winter time I start slacking , I just hate the cold weather it unmotivatesme and makes me feel bummed lol so I usually pack on some pounds and hibernate in the winter lol so if a girl doesn’t like me a little chubby then she can go her own way because I don’t judge her if she put on a few pounds , I actually like a girl with some meat
On her bones honestly , too skinny is nasty to me and too fat is nasty as well so I like the in between type of girls just my preference , if she has nice boobs and nice ass and legs and feet and beautiful eyes and lips I am satisfied lol

[Aggon1998]

True love is unconditional. If you'd lose your hair and your breast to cancer, or if you'd burn your face in an accident, it would also be scandalous to make a complaint about it. Dumping is for me not immedietly the way to go.

Once I settle, I will fight for anything that comes into our relationship. Dumping is advice that is so often given in forums like these, but in my opinion it's far too quick. I have no idea in what context the man in question said it. But if you really fell in love with him and he loves you I wouldn't believe he'd 'truly' makes a problem of your weight. It'd be quite a bit pathetic.

[Little_Bumblebee]

If a man has a problem with my weight, then we wouldn't be dating.
I don't want to feel worse about myself, because the one I'm supposedly in love with, doesn't like how I look.

My body and weight are going to change throughout my whole life, and his will most likely change as well.
If that's an issue for him, then he's not the one for me.

[AmandaYVR]

"Doomed"? Wouldn't call it that. But yeah, get rid of him. He'll always be looking to level up.

[Guy13]

Most likely and not very bright to press either age or weight...

[Hulk_kitty]

There is always going to be someone who likes you for who you are, skinny, fat etc. You can't please everyone in this world. Its absolutely impossible to be sexually attractive to everyone of the opposite sex.

Someone doesn't like you cause of your weight, F&ck them and move on,

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Doomed? LMAO!!! Oh, please! I'll pass been with a whale or a skeleton! If we are in a relationship and she ends up either gaining a lot of weight (fat) or losing a lot of weight (fat and muscle). Then I'll support her and be on her side to change that to a healthy point but if she's not welling that SHE is "doomed"!

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on how much you weight. If you're healthy and in shape and he wants a smaller pereon then it's a him problem. If you're fat and he wants someone healthy then it's a you problem.

[Aggon1998]

It's nice to see someone in the forum with advice for helping in a relationship, rather than suggesting to simply end it. Nowadays people dump so quickly without even talking/communicating with their partner properly. If sh really fell in love with him and he loves her (conditional love doesn't exist), I wouldn't believe he'd 'truly' makes a problem of her weight if she just got a little chubby.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Thank you for this comment! It's great to remember her and there that people with an actual working brain exist in this world!

[Tyrael]

Doomed to not end up with a fatty? I don't see an issue there

[Chazmatazz269]

Hahahaha! “Don’t threaten me with a good deal!”

[CateM]

A man who has a problem with your weight isn't a man worth dating unless they're concerned for your health or smth like that

[Berethor]

Not as doom as women not liking short men, weight can be changed in most cases.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Everyone can end up over or under weight, if you gain or lose too much, you reverse it. If people left over that sort of thing, almost no one would stay married.

[peacesncream]

A problem for that person if they don't like ot then leave

[HighValue]

If he works out and is in shape, he has every right to not want a fat lazy person.

[AngelLily]

Unless I’m unhealthy I see no Reason why He would say anything about my Weight

[loveslongnails]

It can be a problem if there's a significant weight change during the relationship, I believe.

[Makeushiver]

I don't tink you need to worry about getting dumped given your photo. Love it

[Alex8736]

but when 6 months pass and your strutting in a 2 piece arm and arm with someone else moving forward he'll still be jerking offvto internet pirn lol

[Anonymous]

Why would he be doomed to be dumped when she has a weight problem? Sounds more like she might get dumped.

[Charliefretz329]

He shouldn’t need to change you, that’s a problem from the start.

[Anonymous]

We're you fat before. Or did you gain weight.

[Anonymous]

i'm just concerned about how much weight she lost and wish she puts weight back on for her own health reasons

[Mmmariaxc]

Why is he with you if he doesn’t like you?

[Kelly6]

Total doom