My mother does not love me and only wants my money. She wishes me the worst things. How to deal with it?

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caring__1 · Accepted Answer

No one can take advantage of you, unless you allow them to take advantage of you. Set your limits and consistently respect them. You can be respectful of a person without letting them walk all over you. Find a substitute mom you can look up to and feel loved by. This could be the mother of a friend or another relative or teacher or mentor or someone you find while volunteering at the local senior center. Choose relationships that work for you. Don't feel stuck with blood relatives.

I knew a woman who was raised in a toxic home. She eventually realized she'd never be able to feel good about herself in that environment, so she disconnected contact with her family. This choice allowed her to believe in herself and feel good about herself. One day, someone approached her and said "I heard your dad died last week. I'm sorry for your loss." This put the woman into a deep state of mourning. You may ask how she can mourn someone who was toxic. She wasn't mourning the person, but the potential. Now, her dad would never have the opportunity to wake up and realize what he had done and then choose to make amends for his past. Don't punish yourself for the actions others choose. It's your life. Find meaningful paths that allow you to enjoy all aspects of your life.

aaron210419 · Accepted Answer

If you don't already, get your own place to live and then cut her off for a while. It's sad and harsh but like you said she didn't love you. Family can be toxic just like anyone else, however you choose to deal with it I wish you the strength to do what's best for you and wish you the best.

Anonymous · Answer

Do what I did and move out and cut off contact. Make sure you secure your money and bank.

jayhams · Answer

Cut her out of your life

Preeti161101 · Answer

He is your mum so deal with her politely

boggboss · Answer

Cutting her off

Anonymous · Answer

i know a few people in your situation

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