Do y'all agree?

[MissMam]

So some of the most attractive people out there that ik, are fairly confident and humble, they don't gloat about there looks and there just living there life like a normal person. And they have a kind personality.

What's your take on this statement?

What make's a person attractive in your eyes?

[SnowedIn]

I like your statement and agree. (There are also people who physically attractive and who are the opposite of what you describe.)

For me, what makes a person attractive is a whole host of items. Among them are that they're thoughtful. Kind. Able to carry on a conversation. Can think. Willing to have an opinion. Willing to discuss that opinion. Open to new ideas. Curious. Willing to read. Laughs. Doesn't think they're better (or worse) than others. Is vulnerable but also strong. Confident but not arrogant. Has flaws and isn't afraid of them. Willing to accept my flaws.

[MissMam]

I love your comment, and sadly I know way to many people that are physically attractive but are horrible people.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for the kind words and for MHO!

[MissMam]

no prob

[GreenLanternI0I]

Most attractive people are 100% confident, but a lot of them are not humble and most of them don't have a kind personality (it is a lie). Kind personality doesn't get most attractive men more ass than they can physically handle. Kind personality doesn't get most attractive women Very high and Powerful positions in a working field. Most attractive and kind personality do not go together in this world.

[Chill_Thoughts]

Usually, having good looks it's oftentimes times not attractive enough if you're a douche. Confidence is something that benefits everyone
I'd say some people do rely on looking good a bit too much tho

[Chill_Thoughts]

In my eyes, the 1st impression of whether you're attractive or not is solely based on looks and a very fast and shallow assessment on how you behave yourself
Admittedly my standards for what's attractive from that point on varies. If I'm just looking for some fun, I might put up with things that I wouldn't if I was looking for something serious

[Chill_Thoughts]

Wbu, what do u find attractive?

[MissMam]

makes sense

[MissMam]

Honestly, a little bit of look but a big part of it for me is the way they carry themselves, and the way they talk and how they act around sirten people. I have a friend that use to be rely closed to me and she ended up asking me out, but it did not work out bc of how she treated so many people with disrespect and got into so many argument's with people and having her emotions way too evolved in other peoples drama, and that reflected on how she acted and it hert not only her but also me. But for me the biggest this is if there personable and kind to most people.

[MrHopper]

Thats a fair analysis, it depends on the person though, some of the more attractive people as in not just physically are like that, they are just themselves, people who try have the opposite

[MissMam]

I agree 100%

[slatyb]

My wife is lovely and very sweet. Today she's more attractive than most of the women I was crushing on in my twenties.

[MissMam]

That's very sweet

[moonpie89]

Definitely yes

[Agape93]

I agree pretty much