Ladies, what do you bring to the table in a relationship?

[ShadezMcgee]

Not being facetious here, so keep the catty reesponses on hold. I have seen questions from you all asking about what men bring, so let's see the other side of the coin.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Financial stability - I'm not out for his money as I make more than enough on my own. Also manage it VERY well.
Good food - My mom and grandmas have taught me well.
Wild child - I love adventure and trying new things.
Passion - I love to show affection by cooking, cuddling, sex, even just staring at him while he does his normal day to day stuff.
Compromise - I don't like things to be in my favor just for being a woman. We're in it together, we make decisions together and so on.

Among other things

[victoriaxoxo]

The whole damn table :)

Ok joking but tbh I don't think about what a guy brings to the table and nor do I contemplate on what I bring. My relationships tend to be 50:50 so really the focus is usually on being nice to each other and helping one another. And not this entitled what do you bring to the table nonsense.

[ShadezMcgee]

Thank you for the response. I find this question is definitely triggering for both genders as I have seen both sides get angry and frustrated with it. It isn't a phrase I am not fond of myself embecause it reeks of arrogance.

[victoriaxoxo]

Exactly. Unless you're tryna get into a sugar daddy/mama - sugar baby relationship then this shouldn't be a topic altogether.

[DizzyDesii]

Well i finally learned how to somewhat cook and do laundry 😂 Im financially stable (even when I dont have a job). I got the seductive part downpacked but he’d have to be able to handle a tease like me. I would never physically cheat. Lmao I’m sorry but emotional cheating is unpredictable. I tend to lock myself in a tower like rapunzel to avoid that shit. But as long as the guy is doing everything he should then he has nothing to worry about. I don’t compromise so we just gotta already be on the same page. Its whatever. But I pay my own bills. I’d buy my own meal. His Christmas gifts would be AWESOME 😂 I’m a pretty good kisser, and his dick would always get to cum..: just not in me 🥴 I hate cuddling and sharing a bed, but bah humbag. It is what it is. I’m clingy for as long as he is, buti detach very easily so he better not piss me off. I’m awesome at holding a convo but im not a great listener. Oh well, thats what he's got ears for. I’m very loving and nurturing despite my lack of wanting to cuddle. I don’t drive but i’d buy him a car. Um yea, im sure its some other crap i can’t think of right now but he’ll know what he's getting same day or week we meet. If he chooses to stick around, thats on him.

[Faith18letsgo]

I’m
1) funny
2) smart
3) willing to make the first move
4) a good kisser
5) enjoy cuddling
6) enjoy grinding
7) am happy to find good places to go on a date and ask her out
8) I’m very excited by sexual stuff
9) I’m not clingy
10) I keep my jealousy in check
11) I’m very thoughtful
12) I’m sweet
13) I’m willing to laugh at bumps along the road
14) I’m not a cheater
15) I’m polyamorous
16) I have grown up and am no longer a bitter ex
17) I’m a good listener when it comes to women
18) I’m very generous in bed and down to try almost anything (again when it comes to women)

[grierwrange]

Not really skills so very subjective and no offense but half are about you being horny

[MendaciousMarxist]

myself, I am on the table wrapped like a Christmas gift. let's go! 😎

To be fair, I have everything.

I'm hot, I'm loving (trust me, you're in good hands with me), I have common sense and can help you with anything, I make my own money and won't have to bother you with much, I'm good at playing the role of a wife and a mother and I'm even better in bed.

[LazerBean]

Gosh this is the second time this question has been posted within the span of an hour lol

But I'll answer anyway. I bring everything a classic Southern, conservative, traditional woman typically does.

[ShadezMcgee]

Coincidence, I guess. Thank you for the answer, though.

[Adaeva]

Since I have plenty of offers, what I bring to the table must be what teenage boys like. What I bring is my good looks, my high intelligence, good social skills, and a personality that enjoys talking, having fun, playing games, and having new experiences.

[Ms_Facesitter]

How to convince you err..
I am not a loud person and do not like to leave arguments to grow into something big.

I am a logical person and one of my quotes is "control your emotions or they control you".

Making you happy makes me happy. I love seeing you enjoy my food. But be wary, you might get a love belly.

I don't need you to be romanticnor take me to expensive places, and I don't crave gifts either. A walk together is more precious than some necklace.

[AsaKyo]

I don't know, I guess support you, lots of affection, help you with the bills, I'll clean your house, do your laundry, clean your dirty dishes, give you a shoulder massage or a foot massage, if you're into games and goofy shows, I'll be your gaming buddy or TV buddy, I'll cuddle with you, and I guess sleep with you?

This is only if you're my long-term boyfriend or husband that I really love and you really love me back, thoughh 🥴

Not just any silly turd 🤪

[Subarugirl]

Love, support, companionship, commitment, affection, empathy, friendship, chemistry, ambition, integrity, faithfulness, loyalty, respect, patience, reliability, security, home making, maternal instincts, a good basic understanding of home and automotive care and repair, income, competence, emergency medical training, and a plethora of practical skills that benefit both the home and business.

[CA4444]

Fun, the spice of life, support, love and sex and food, this one seems to be a pretty big one lol

[little_bird1]

Loyalty, honesty, support, lots of sex, dark humor, 2 houses, 1 car, 2 cats and 4k monthly.