What do you bring to the table in a relationship?

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Sometimes one might think that a relationship is like a one-way street. One gives while the other receives. Isn't a relationship supposed to be equal? So, guys and gals, what do you bring to the table to sweeten the pot?

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I was told an interesting concept today.

There is two marketplaces people get judged from is the relationship marketplace and the sexual marketplace. Added together they make that scale you will commonly hear about the 1-10 scale. 5 for relationship marketplace value and 5 for sexual market place.

So an example would be a porn star... She probably has a 5/5 sexual marketplace value. She's hawt makes me want to touch my penis just from seeing her on a screen. Her relationship value though is probably pretty low and she will end up being a 5/10.

The opposite would be that great woman that's the best to be around, great with kids, cooks, cleans et cetera... but she's fat.

It's just an interesting concept that was told to me and I figured I would share here on this question. We all bring what we bring. I'm pretty sure I bring more sexual marketplace value, but I also bring relationship value here and there... like I can watch kids, I can cook, and I clean. I'll also make your friends stare at me with an open mouth if I take my shirt off to do those things.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

I'm the leader, the protector, I keep the kids in check (our son obeys me more than her because I back it up when I tell him to do or not do something, she engages in endless arguments and back and forths. I don't argue. I say it one time and if you don't obey then there are consequences. He knows when I say I'll do X that I will do it. She'll threaten all the time but then back off and not follow through. She won't take his Nintendo or she''ll "feel sorry" for him and give it back.) I keep the kids in line and keep them obedient. I mow and do yard work and handle it every time a mouse gets in or there is a bug or there is a noise she wants me check out. I set the tone for how we handle money and our investments and I always meet with our financial advisor while she comes occasionally. I am always asking the questions and getting feedback. She doesn't understand a lot of it.

I am dad and I bring the masculine energy, the stability. I am the calm one in tense situations while she freaks out and gets emotional and almost hysterical.

lightofdarkness · Accepted Answer

Imagination, childish soul, wisedom mind and deep character. Mostly time i acted like crazy because i really love this life. So why should i stop to being myself? If i want to be insane then i do. Actually i'm not agree with you, relationship isn't have to equal. It have to equal 1. If you %60 then he will %40 or otherwise. I'm not talking about age or ability. It can be mood, knowledge, patient etc. But if you see the relationship like someone receive, other take after that you started to see this like shopping because i did. But it's wrong. Every relationship needs depth. If you lost this then you can't reach her/his soul

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

My marriage has been working very well for the 13 years we've been married and it has been a 50/50 thing between us. We both contribute a very good income, but other than that we have always shared all the household chores and even the cooking (I was fortunate to catch a guy who knows caribbean food as well as the best chefs) which is a big plus. It isn't a rule however we do talk with each other before making major and even some minor decisions. We take time to do things together minus kids along with doing many things as a whole group with the family.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Aiming to spice up your relationship game here on Girls Ask Guys! Relationships are definitely a delicious two-way street, and bringing something to the table is about offering your unique ingredients to the mix. 😊 Personally, I bring expert communication skills, a wealth of relationship insights, and a dash of humor to keep things lively. Oh, and let's not forget the ability to recognize a red flag faster than you can say "lovebombing!" What's your secret sauce, folks? 🌶️❤️

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Finchie40 · Answer

Respect, Trust and Honesty, Loyalty and Commitment, Security and Stability, intimacy and affection , Humor , Very easy going and laid back , I am old school when it comes to traditional relationships. I only like girls’ that want to be a team partner with me , basically her and I Verse the world. Having each others’ backs and face whatever obstacles come are way as long as she stands by me like I stand by her. I don’t accept cheating and selfish liars

Anonymous · Answer

Loyalty, patience, understanding, willingness to be part of their struggle, if time ask - being a real partner in their struggle, their fights, a trusted friend and everything which he needs to be his true self and for our shared goals and our journey. He gets everything from me.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Kindness and compassion 
 Respect 
 Confidence 
 Intelligence 
 Sense of humor 
 Honesty and integrity 
 Good communication skills 
 Shared interests and values The same things I receive from my man.

SomothErgai · Answer

I bring a high level of education, conversation, intimacy, wide range of skills in cooking, building and fixing things, adventure, camping, protection for that matter, a pretty decent amount of money.

I bring lots of stuff to the table but I feel like that's not what people should be looking for in a partner. I care way more about how much I enjoy the time I spend with someone than what they can do for me. If they "bring things to the table" then those are neat bonuses I guess but hardly what I would consider important to a relationship.

overlord337645 · Answer

i am always told i am more empathetic than a lot of others I don't know if its true but i imagine since most tend to think i show a lot more emotion than most men but still can protect those i care about id say those two things

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I fear and love God. High biblical knowledge. Willing to share my resources and money.  Affection. Support. Honesty. Loyalty. Sex. Companionship.

Spencer10 · Answer

I am very sorry but as soon as I saw that pic I totally forgot the question... I guess I sure don't bring a memory to any relationship.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I used the table for firewood. I own my home that is paid for along with my automobiles … I’d be nuts to let a great set of boobs come in between me and my peace at this point. The table had to go….

Circushowcowboy · Answer

A supportive partner with a sense of humor who will kick in with my share of bills and household work

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Loyalty <3 Love and care <3 Straightforward communication <3 Honesty for better or worse <3 Support <3 A big butt to keep his face warm <3

serious · Answer

Well, I have very little to offer to be honest.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i don't bring anything. i just want to be your friend and i'm not even sure i want that.

Exinth · Answer

I've never dated but my good qualities are: im very good with kids, im a good listener, and im good at solving peoples problems emotionally

Anonymous · Answer

Sausage and eggs. Can keep a girl’s belly full for 9 months at a time lol

Crazzyyworld · Answer

It seems like straight couple are about money and sex. There is no love. They might become romantic after they fed up with sex and food. Hahah

Staximus · Answer

Everything except height and a silly hairdo

princeofromance · Answer

I bring the romance and sweep her off her feet.

Guanfei · Answer

Pringles. And sarcasm.

Anonymous · Answer

If that's all she's bringing I can't interested.

exitseven · Answer

I am just awesome. There are no two ways about it.

Levin · Answer

My kung fu powers.

electromagnetic · Answer

Breakfast, lunch and dinner.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Nothing.. besides love and loyalty..

LiamJHayden · Answer

Commitment if she is worthy.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

The picture tho 😂

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

WTF?

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