How long do u wait to make love with ur boyfriend or girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

It's been 4.5 months and we haven't made love yet.

[DaveJord]

Humm... good question. I been dating women for 6 weeks and we have not had sex yet... but we are spending New Year's weekend together and planning a ski trip the following weekend... not separate rooms.

4.5 months... well that is a long time. I really don't know enough about your relationship or circumstances... but for me with a woman I was 100% serious about that seems a little long. But then again, I it's been 6 weeks now with my current girlfriend and will be two months before we spend a whole night together... I could see myself waiting 4.5 months on this woman. But there is a lot of substance to our dating life, and we make out and are touching each other all the time. So, we are very physical, even though we have not been naked or anything like that together. There's been no sex of any type. But she is an unbelievable kisser, and we do that often.

But I have been with women where I wasn't willing to wait like 5 dates... but this one is different.

So, if you are starting to ask yourself these types of question, then it might be the right time for you, or maybe it's not right at all. You really need to work that out with him.

[Brando10222]

Do it when you both are comfortable. Everyone is different. On this app there are many people who've even had sex on their 1st date.