A guy lead me on so he can use me for money and he might be doing the same to his new girl should I warn her?

[Anonymous]

So I think he used me for money. After some research I see his new girl is also helping him financially too. I do know her personally through him. We are not super close but do follow each other on Snapchat and talk on there ever now and then. Should I warn the new girl she could be getting used too. I feel kind of guilty talking to her and not telling her what happened.

[Summeroflove]

You should try to warn her yes. Unfortunately sometimes people won’t listen. But at least you tried. Sorry you went through that.


People on here say men can’t be gold diggers….. uh yeah they can

[shanshu]

You could but she might accused you of being jealous or something because no one want to heard or feel like they are being used so she may go into denial, what you could do after you told her is say "you don't have to believe but withhold helping him financially for awhile and see what happens.

Tell her to not let him guilt trip her to giving him money

[ArtemisSilver]

Or you could move on with your life like every guy who's experienced this has.

[driven159]

yes you should if you are already talking to her