Do you try to win your relationship?

[Twalli]

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Okay, so I was watching last season's Temptation Island and one guy had trouble that he was never winning in his relationship. He wanted to win some of the time. It wasn't in games like pool, air hockey, Yahtzee, cards, etc. it was winning the relationship. I don't know how you can win or lose a relationship you are in. I just wondered if anyone tries to do this because I don't think you need to win it. You already got the girl/boy, you won, and the game is over.

[NathanDavis]

that sounds quite inadequate... which I am not

[Friendlybro79]

No. Winning makes it a competition. Just being as good as I can be and treat others how I want to one treated is how I approach it.

[DizzyDesii]

Try to win it? What?

[Twalli]

Apparently, you can win and lose in a relationship. I see getting into a relationship as winning, so I stop playing at that point.

[DizzyDesii]

Which season and which dude, im tryna remember his situation. But maybe he means winning in arguments or in terms of success and dominance

[Twalli]

I think it was Luke, with Luke & Iris. The blonde dude with the Asian girlfriend. He was the one that proposed and she accepted. So the most recent season.

[Twalli]

One of the girls said that he deserved to win some of the time in his relationship. As soon as I saw that with my girlfriend, I turned to her and said "by you agreeing to date me, I already won".

[DizzyDesii]

Oh yea you already know i didn't like Luke lol

[NotTacocaT6969]

Can’t win something that isn’t a competition.

[SnowedIn]

No. But I do work on it constantly.

[Agape93]

No it's not a competition

[Blackcupcake]

what does that even mean… lol

[SweetTwistedSatanist]

Win? How do I win?

[In_Trance]

it's never a competition

[Keishio]

What is there to win?