Guys, Do you have to be the big spoon in your relationship?

[Anonymous]

I will only be the big spoon

It doesn't matter, I can be the big spoon or little spoon

I will only be the little spoon

I don't like spooning, so neither

[Paul_in_Indy]

Look, here’s the thing: spoons do not stack unless they are THE SAME SIZE. The spoon that fits perfectly with the spoon on top of it isn’t the “big spoon.” It’s the same sized spoon. That’s how spoons work.

As far as people snuggling goes, I am usually much taller than the girl I am cuddling with. It works better if I wrap her up than the other way around. There is no power dynamic involved in this. But the fit works best if I am behind.

…and I won’t get too far into the sexual dynamic, but there are obvious reasons for me to be behind her if this is clothing-optional cuddling.

Just leave spoons out of it, OK?

[SnowedIn]

I selected it doesn't matter, but I'm always the big spoon since my wife is significantly shorter!

[TheSpaceGnome]

I can do either, but I prefer hugging her over spooning her/being spooned by her, and being big spoon is better because you can hold her boobs.

[HighValue]

I like both and would prefer to switch off different times.

[LiamJHayden]

Might be awkward being the little spoon if I have 10" and 75 lbs. on her.

[Guardian45]

In most cases, it's harder for a woman to be the big spoon, because she's shorter. LOL!

[Anonymous]

Seemed to work better when I was the big spoon so we stuck to that.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Not necessarily.

[panamared1]

Either, but prefer big spoon