Girls, So my girlfriend found my old dating profile. I never cheated on her but she won’t speak to me much. Will she ever forgive me?

[Anonymous]

I deactivated the profile. Had no idea it was still up and going. Had old pictures of me none recent. I really love her and told her it’s gone and it will never happen again. We have been fairing steady for a year now. But here’s a twist she’s still married, but wants a divorce.

[SueShe]

I presume that deactivating a profile does not remove it from the platform and is still available for others to see.

It's a bit of a mess because why would you even have a profile, whether active or deactivated?

Also, how did you two meet if she is still married? It tells me that she is not really a very reliable person if she is seeking someone to fornicate while still being married. I believe that both of you have something to hide from the other.

She is the only one to know whether she will ever forgive you but unless you come up with excellent arguments as to why you had a profile in the first place, I have serious doubts about it.

[BigWhiteWolf87]

First off. She's married. You are "dating" means she is UNRELIABLE and a CHEATER.

Second. She's a cheater on her husband. Her behavior is indicative she may be cheating on you. Cheaters accuse partners of cheating to deflect from THEIR behavior.

. Third. She's immature for her seeming older age. A person who is not immature, childish or even suffering from mental issues does not behave as she does.

Fourth. If she's married, she's likely older & likely only interested in you because you're younger. It's a cheap and pathetic thrill for her.

So why are you wasting your time? Do you honestly think she'll stay with you? She's already proven herself to be an unreliaible trollop / slut.

DO YOURSELF A FAVOUR and say thank you. I am going BACK to my dating profile to look for a RESPECTABLE individual. Something you - older married woman - are NOT.

[MzAsh]

She’s married so technically you’re a free agent. You missed a great opportunity to make that point to her.

[Anonymous]

That is a screw-up on your part. Good luck with this.