I've just learned that my sister and my ex boyfriend are dating. My sister admitted to me and apologized. How would you react if you heard such a thing? We haven't talked about it yet, I didn't say anything to her...
It’s messed up to be honest , and disrespectful on your sisters part to do that to you , if my brother did that to me , I would knock him the fuck out honestly , but sadly this shit happens , cuz most people in general are selfish and only really care about themselves, i would lose respect for my brother if he did that shit and I would bust his balls like crazy on how he enjoys my sloppy seconds, but I guess in time , if they are truly happy together and their relationship works out, then I guess I would eventually get over it and be acceptive of it , but the truth is , it more than likely won’t , I had it happen to me before with EX Girlfriend sisters’ trying to get with me , after I broke up with their sister , I mainly did it for sex but I couldn’t fully commit to her , it was just weird to me , so I ended it with them as well, probably what your ex boyfriend will do with your sister , He will bang her for a bit then kick her to the curb , just my guess , All in all , your sister dug her own grave so let her lay in it , Your ex boyfriend just feels like he is the man so he can say he had both you sisters in bed , Your sister is a fool
Wow, that is a no-no in my book, honestly!! First, I have had a strained relationship with my sister since I was in my teens and when she was in her early 20s. My sister is promiscuous; strangely enough, she "hates women and would do anything to hurt them." Her words, not mine. It also seems that she would praise men or stick up for them, even if they are disrespectful! That didn't sit well with me. I always felt like I couldn't trust her. I didn't hate her, but I still loved her. However, from a distance, a far, FAR distance. When I was 17, we got into an argument right before college. We said something things, and normally I'd say anything disrespectful that came to my mind; however, this time, I was quiet. When she saw that I wasn't giving her no attention, she said this, and I quote, "You so Stupid, that's why you ain't going nowhere in life" to this day, that still sticks with me. Success is not everything in this world, and I wouldn't sell my soul for success; however, I wanted to be successful in my career, and when it came to academics, I wasn't the strongest like here. After this, I didn't invite her to my wedding reception or my wedding. I didn't invite her to anything. To answer your question, I wouldn't be surprised if she'd date my ex. My advice to you is to handle it gracefully and tell her there is nothing to discuss. Clearly, your sister has no type of morality and a faulty character.
Wish you the best luv!
This would seriously strain my relationship with my sister if it were me and I would likely never trust her again, this is definitely weird and disrespectful. While its technically "OK" to date an ex since you two aren't together before, it suggests an attraction that was going on while you were dating that is snakey and scary to be happening in your own family. Also not to mention it puts you in a very uncomfortable position at family gatherings, outings, etc. if she would bring him. Especially since everyone around you is probably pitying you and feeling the same weirdness of the situation. Would be uncomfortable all around. Overall, she is really showing how she feels about you (likely jealous or disdain, at least lack of care for your feelings). In the end it shows she's more interested in pursuing a romance that most likely won't end in anything signifigant over preserving your trust and relationship with her. I would distance yourself from your sister and tell her you are not going to be talking to her much anymore becuase of her actions, and I hope she knows apologizing retrospectively doesn't absolve her from her guilt either. I wish the best to you.
This all theoretical so one couldn't say for sure but tbh I probably find it cool if we go by she's dating a girl I dated. Granted I would detail why it's bad choice if my Ex had clear issues.
If your making it my brother dating an Ex though I would not find it cool but tbh I just wouldn't care. He can make his own mistakes. I would be lost less protective of a brother I guess just due to a slight bias I have towards disliking men.
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I think it’s weird. Bur there isn’t a law against it. Depends on the situation I guess if she SHOUlD
While it may be awkward you can’t really stop them
No that’s frightening but if I was the guy “keeping it in the family” then 🎉
1. I'm glad I don't have a sister. If she did do that, I don't know what she would be thinking. I think it would be disrespectful to be honest. But I think it would also depend on the relationship (and how it ended), but overall, I wouldn't like her for doing that. There are more that 5 Million (give or take) dudes on planet earth, WHY him? ? ! ! 🤷♀️
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@TenderFantasy you meant 5 billion of course (although it’s up to 8 now)
No, it isn't. Unless (and I will put a big unless) the sister whose ex it is is genuinely okay with it. This usually can happen if it wasn't a serious relationship and the two didn't have deep feelings for one-another, or if it was a "puppy-love" relationship (again not serious.)
Otherwise, a huge no-no. Sisters who tend to date their sisters' exes are selfish, perhaps envious of her sister all along, and have questionable morals. It says a lot about both the sister's and the ex's character.
This one girl started dating a guy when she was age 19, and he was age 45, and they are all born again Christians, and they had 2 biological children together, and he adopted her one son, so I believe you should contact your sister and have talked with her cause this girl I'm telling you about, married her late mom's old boyfriend.
It depends. If it was a serious relationship and she was dumped by him, it would probably be a problem. It also depends on how much time has passed because if it was in middle school and they’re now out of college, nobody would even care at that point.
No its not okay. It's really low and shameful if I'm being honest. If your close girl friends shouldn't date your ex for damn sure your relatives shouldn't. Your ex is wrong for even doing that with her too.
What a mess. What's the possible outcome, what would y'all do if they get attached and stay together? Sounds like a dangerous road that has no nice ending. There's plenty of opportunities out there, don't challenge your destiny.
Personally, for me. I would be kinda shocked but, if it makes my ex and my twin sister are happy with each other then so be it. I’m really sorry for your situation though. I think you should probably tell her how you feel though.
you are no longer dating him for whatever reason, so quite possibly she sees something in him that she likes that you didn't like.
You should be happy for her that she found someone.
You will get used to it over time.
I'm married to my ex fiancées little sister. She still butthurt because the guy she cheated with and left me for with the bigger dick, more money and better education dumped her. Meanwhile we are both very happy
@Pinz89 naive for sure but I wasn't intrested in revenge. I was very low after the break up and had always been good friends with my wife when I was dating her sister, used to take her on dates when the fair was in town or to the movies, even dinner, helped with her homework kind of like a big brother. Anyway I had been off in the army and at college and was back in town and she was all grown up and very pretty and not a little girl anymore, we got to talking and started hanging out. Then one night we got to kissing when I walked her home. Everything is so much easier with my wife compared to her sister.
Yikes. You're both not nice people. I feel for your ex.
@BriannaWallace98 yeah the womzn who cheated on me and tried to ruin her sister's wedding after she got dumped is a saint
Doesn't give you an excuse to be bad people as well.
@BriannaWallace98 we didn't cheat or screw anyone over. She just mad because she's alone, fat snd has a child and we are happy. You don't have rights to your ex
@Pinz89 she is fat
I'd say make it clear to the ex they do anything screwy and your coming for the pair. And then smile and wink.
That's like an unwritten rule for sisters... you never date the same guy. I'm not okay with that sorry.
Ewww I would think its gross why would she want my sloppy seconds...
Let's just say that I would be none too happy... Period.
Your sister should know better than dating your ex. You don't date your families or friends exes.
Ouch. Depends on you.
It's even worse than if it was a friend. Personally, that's a nope for me.
We dated the same guy at the same time together. HA then dumped him lol
It’s certainly OK for mt ex’s sister to hook up with me. Sounds great.
WHAT😡 most deffinetly not no fkn chance desetefull bitch heck no
I've only done it twice, where I've had sex with one sister and then dated the younger sister as a challenge.
I mean I would be very mad and probably not okay with it of I'm honest
You're asking us if it's ok for your sister to date your ex? I'm sorry, but shouldn't you know if that's ok for you?
it's fine eith me my soulmate is followinh my sister so they can go fuck themselves
That must be awkward, especially if you got intimate with him and now you know your sister is most likely doing the same thing, probably 💀
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I once dated the sister of an ex of mine. My ex was absolutely enraged at first, but then came around and was actually very kind to us and very accepting eventually.
Why did you ask this 😂
I think my ex found out i had sex with her little sister and she keeps calling me ( kinda freaked out actually she knows where I live )
If we ended things amicably then sure.
Otherwise it will be awkward.
So it depends on situation.
Yes, it is, because it’s none of my business whom my sister, brother, or non-binary sibling is dating.
I thought that breaks "girl code" or something?
ex's are off the table for sisters and friends. how fucking awkward.
It is up to you whether to be okay with it or not.
She was in the wrong for not asking you first.
No, not okay, not for a minute not for a second.
Depends I guess. If you left him then that'd be on you
Absolutely not >.> I would so not be okay with that xD
That would depend on how low her IQ is.
This guy is something. Your dad knows?
Yes it's totally okay.
I think that is a bit close.
I don't understand why people give a fuck.
Jealousy, maybe?
This is like incest lol
If its an x, i wouldn't care.
The holidays are going to be awkward
sounds amazing, yea do it
whatever floats her boat
I mean I am okay with it lol
That simply is not "COOL" Sorry!
That's not okay...
It’s not cool unless she were to talk to you first
Let them enjoy, as you enjoy with your girlfriend
Its ok but she isn't lesbian
that's fucked up
That’s disturbing
Not even close 😵💫
Definetly not lol
Definitely not.
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