Can I date my ex girlfriend's sister?

[jackwashere]

This girl, Katie, and I started dating in January. We dated for about two months, and then I found her starting to get kind of annoying. Anyway, we broke up after two months of dating. I had known her sister, Kelli, for awhile, but never really talked to her. These past few weeks Kelli and I have been talking and hanging out, and I'm starting to really like her. She and her sister are total opposites. Katie is obsessed with her hair and her appearance. Kelli cares about her appearance, but is more concerned with her grades and her future, and that's the kind of girl I'm looking for. I do want to date Kelli, but I don't know if that would tear her and her sister apart. I don't want to cause their family trouble. Any ideas?

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+1 y

The first sister and I didn't have an incredibly serious relationship. We never said I love you. We never went farther than kissing. We eventually realized we obviously weren't supposed to be together. So we broke up.

[Anonymous]

I am going through the same thing. The thing is that I dated my boyfriend's brother and my boyfriend dated my sister. The thing that brought us together is the fact that our exes cheated and lied to us in the exact same way. Meaning, my sis cheated and his brother cheated. We know that it will cause problems, but honestly.. we think about our happiness now. My sister is married and has 2 kids. His brother has 2 kids and will get married, they both moved on. It's our time to be happy. Things happen for a reason.. and my boyfriend and I are perfect match honestly...

[XRabbitHeartX]

Nah that would be kinda mean unless you know for a fact Katie is a chilled out girl who wouldn't care about things like that although that's pushing your luck cause I'm sure she won't be fine with it. You can always still be friends with Kelli so yeah, don't try anything though. It will most probably bring trouble and bad karma.

[ilovecaylam]

Don't even try to. You will tear them apart for deffo. Stay away leave two of them alone. Don't be a d*ck that is really unfair to your ex

[Anonymous]

No dating your ex sister is never a good idea because you ex is going to tell her sister ever thing about you and dating her sister may not end well for you and the both of them are going to end up hatting you.

[Shaun]

You'll kick yourself later if you don't at least try.

[Shaun]

Besides, you two are already hanging out. The sisters may have already been talking about it and are cool with it. It doesn't hurt to ask.

[Nicefuture]

No and No and No.

They will end up hating each other,thAt will cause lots of drama trust me unless her sister said "thats alright".

[christian2724]

No, not a chance. Not if you have any class.

[Shaun]

You don't know how serious the relationship with the first sister was. It may have been nothing.

[kheserthorpe]

How can you say its nothing. It was a TWO MONTH relationship in high school. They probably went out as many as TEN or TWELVE times.

[Shaun]

By nothing I mean no real emotional attachment on either side. If the first sister doesn't have feelings for him, it shouldn't be an issue. Besides, if the first sister had a problem with it, he and the second sister wouldn't be hanging out. Obviously sister one is fine with it.

[christian2724]

Depends how they broke up doesn't it? If it's in HS I doubt it ended well. Awkward central.

[jackwashere]

The break up wasn't bad at all. I felt it was time. And that's that.

[Vasillilaw]

Don't do it. Just move on.

[7121uc]

why wouldn't he do it? There is no law forbidding this.

[jackwashere]

It's hard to just move on when two people like each other. Should I just a little bit? Talk it over with Katie (we remained friends after our breakup).

[Vasillilaw]

I feel like no matter how you go about it someone is going to get hurt. You can go ahead and try, but I still don't condone it. I definitely think that talking it over with you ex would help a lot should you decide to go through with dating this girl. Good luck! (:

[eli2941]

no