Monkey in the middle. Help?

[Anonymous]

I have 2 friends (boy and girl) they were friends, very close. Everyone thought they were an item. Anyways the guy made her super mad and for some reason they no longer speak (they won't say why) now they are asking me to tell the other things.

Me & the guy don't really get along only was friends because of her, he won't answer any of my questions but will only answer me if it pertains to her. What is happening?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're in a difficult position, caught in the middle of a conflict between two friends. It's important to remember that you are not responsible for resolving their issues or being a mediator between them.

It's important to communicate to both friends that you care about them and value their friendship, but that you don't feel comfortable being put in the middle of their conflict. Encourage them to talk to each other directly and work through their issues, rather than involving you as a messenger or mediator.

If either friend tries to pressure you into taking sides or sharing information that you're not comfortable with, it's okay to set boundaries and prioritize your own emotional well-being. You can explain that you don't want to get involved in their conflict and that you need to focus on your own well-being.

Ultimately, it's up to your friends to work through their issues and communicate with each other in a healthy and respectful way. While it's important to offer support and encouragement, it's not your responsibility to fix their relationship or act as a go-between.

[Wise4myage]

That's ridiculous, Id tell them to figure things out on their own, and keep you out of it.

[Asker]

I know I tried but she says she is done with his mind games and he is acting like he has no idea why she so mad. It's so annoying. Then he will only talk to me about her. Anything else he ignores me

[Wise4myage]

Keep trying, and get mad about it.

[Asker]

Ok I will thanks.

[Wise4myage]

Your welcome.

[Anonymous]

Tell them you're tired of playing mediator

[Asker]

I did, she stopped but he hasn't. Then when I try to talk about anything but her he won't answer me at all. If I mention her he will respond right away.

[Opinion Owner]

Theyre not your friends. Cut them both off

[Asker]

Yeah I will, I think she is done and he isn't but I don't care anymore you right. If he wants her back he can figure it out