I have a crush on a girl.. she knows I like her and she goes with me on outings alone one day I asked are we just frnd she said yes wht shld ido?

[Anonymous]

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What should I do if my bestie is not talking after I confessed her. We were like actually very close to each other so guys what should I do

[PrettyPriya]

Not sure what what you are asking. If she said you are just friends then that is what it is... friends. There is not much you can do if that is her view of your relationship with her. It is her telling you that is all it will be, at least for now.

You cannot force someone to like you more than a friend if they do not feel that way. The only thing you can really do is continue to be friends and perhaps one day she changes her mind.

My best advice is to not push for more though. That is the absolute worst thing you can do. If you do that, it will push her further and further away. Just be friends with her for now. You never know what the future might bring. She may change her mind one day and see you in a different light.

I am not saying that is a given, but anything is possible. Best of luck to you.

[Vegasrunner]

@PrettyPriya This is terrible advice. He needs to just move on to the next girl. If he doesn't want to be friends then why would you advise him to do something he doesn't want to do?

[PrettyPriya]

@Vegasrunner Then give your own advice. Where does he say he wouldn't want to still be friends with her? I missed that part apparently. Is that what you do when you don't get your way, pout like a child and close someone off because they didn't abide to your wishes? Smart...

[Vegasrunner]

@PrettyPriya He asked what should he do. You said "just be friends w/ her" That's terrible advice. If you like a girl romantically and she doesn't you have to move on. Pretending to be friends only waste more of your time, when you could be spending it w/ women that genuinely are interested in you. Why would closing not to be friends w/ somebody be considered childish?

[PrettyPriya]

@Vegasrunner Because to throw away a friendship because you didn't get your way is exactly something a child would do. So, being friends is a waste of time to you? Got it. Some friend you must be.

[Vegasrunner]

@PrettyPriya It's not a friendship. He's only being friends w/ her in an attempt to eventually sleep w her. If you know that his intentions are to be more than friends are you saying you want men to lie to you? I said being friends w/ women is a waste of time. What's something tangible that a women friend offers that a male friend doesn't?

[Poppymarie]

If she only wants to be friends, then you’ll have to that. It sucks, but you can’t change her feelings. It’s ok if you’re too hurt to continue the friendship after this, but that’s up to you. You could continue to enjoy her friendship. Just be willing to respect her boundaries. Best of luck. You’ll find someone who’s an even better match for you!

[Poppymarie]

Thanks for MHO

[Steelcore5280]

She friend zoned you, dude. Once you're friend zoned you ain't getting outta that hole. Women will tell you that's not true, but it is.

I recommend not wasting more time, energy, or thought on her. She will probably also play games with your emotions. Don't let her do that.

[gag37627]

Listen to this guy

[razelove]

See if she's really your friend. A friend will help you wing to get other women.

[Anonymous]

What you should do is further downgrade the situation from friendship to acquaintace-ship. If you orbit her, it will kill your chances of finding a good relationship.

Also think about the most common answer a woman gives for why she won't date her male "good friend". She doesn't want to take the chance of ruining a great friendship, right? So that means if you're ever going to have a chance with her, you have to keep her at arm's length.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

If you asked her if you're just friends and she said, that's all it's ever gonna be bud.
If she wanted more, she would've at least hinted toward it

[WanderingLoveWizard]

*said yes

[Anonymous]

you like her more than a friend. she isn't showing you any signs of liking you more than a friend. so either tell her how you feel or let it go.

[WonderSadness]

Try to tell her you love her and get her a romantic gift from with a card and name it “your secret admirer”

[AliSulayman]

Check your underwear and make sure your balls are still there

[WolfDM]

Stop spending so much time if any at all and go find someone else.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

End it.

[Iron_Man]

Play it cool

[In_Trance]

Move on