What makes you feel most masculine when in a relationship?

[Justmeagain1]

I am interested in hearing from all men on this one. What things/ acts make you feel most masculine or alpha in your relationships.

[BarryLiverstone]

When I work on a project for her and complete it, especially if she gets stress relief or joy from all my efforts

[Justmeagain1]

This is refreshing. Thank you for sharing

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Were you expecting a different answer?

[BarryLiverstone]

I also feel masculine when I have her in my arms and I can protect her. When I can keep her safe I feel masculine

[Justmeagain1]

No just kind of aligns with being looked after. 🙂

[BarryLiverstone]

Well ya. If she’s my special person then I’m going to care and put effort into making her heart fill with joy

[OfMiceandMen]

When she hands me the remote and says..."you choose"!

It's the little things...😂

[Justmeagain1]

Yes this is much along the lines of me asking my other half to go to the store with me to do shopping.. or opening the gates when I get home from work so I don’t have to get out of car and then back in- yeah sure the eyes roll but they do it anyways cause it’s important to me :) little things are the best

[OfMiceandMen]

I agree. It doesn't have to be any grandiose gesture or anything sexual. It can be as simple as asking my opinion about something, because it shows she trusts/respects me to help make decisions.

[OfMiceandMen]

Thanks.😊

[Summeroflove]

Well. To be in a healthy relationship. Both people need to support one another in some way or another. Now different people are different in exactly what they’re looking for.

But it has to be a give and take. You have to build him up as he builds you up. That’s the way it should work. When you do this and if he’s a good guy to you as well. You’ll both be happy and will help one another into being better people.

[Finchie40]

When she appreciates me and values me and respects me , she removes selfishness for me and stays loyal to me and doesn’t allow another man to come in between us , she doesn’t hesitate to say no to another guy trying to get with her , she makes me a priority even over her friends , she wears my shoes before making decisions , when a girl does that for me , I easily do that for her , that’s how love grows , if you can’t do that for each other , then there is no point in being in a committed relationship with someone

[EricSummer]

The most masculine I feel when I'm having sex with her doggy style. I would not say it's my favorite position of all, but it can make me feel intensely masculine and this is what you asked.

[Justmeagain1]

Fair response

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I like it when a guy does something weird to a girl and I try to fight him and actually win. Most of the time I don't win or get thrown in jail before we can reach the conclusion.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Doing exhausting physical labor, then coming home, taking a shower, laying on my back in bed as my wife spends an hour fu*king my brains out.

[horndog112]

Finishing a nice mow and then looking at the distinct “line of dominance” between my yard and my neighbor’s

[MrCommodore]

I leave the toilet seat up💪

[Justmeagain1]

That’s funny - them fighting actions lol

[MrCommodore]

Yeah, that's right, I'm a bad man 😎...😂

[Unit1]

No such thing as masculinity and femininity 😏🙂

[Justmeagain1]

Can you elaborate please?

[Unit1]

It's as simple as you've heard it.
As for me this means there is nothing to be done so that i feel in a way i do not believe in.
It's like asking me what can i do to feel purple or smell cyan.

[Justmeagain1]

Thank you now I understand:)

[Unit1]

And while you're at it drop the "alpha" part in it too. It's for infantile a-holes.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Easy it's helping my future girlfriend and wife out

[shades777]

Unquestioned about my leadership style. That puts a smile on my face.


Imagine someone doubting all your decisions , nobody wants that.

[AliSulayman]

Open kinky sex! When everything is allowed and she’s ready to experience everything.

[Anonymous]

A feminine woman who embraces her femininity, and knows how to treat a man well.

[559loney]

When he has his way sexually with his partner

[FilmGuy93]

Being told how safe I make her feel.

[Justmeagain1]

It’s nice to see a natural protector among us :)

[noohair]

I just know what I am doing.