Would you allow your girlfriend to meet her ex - If she says its only a meet and to trust her?

[Anonymous]

[zayndan]

Yes I would, because I know my girlfriend. She would never do anything disloyal. The questions is do you know your girlfriend enough? Does she have a trustworthy character? And what exactly is the meet up going to be about, and why is it so important to her?

[richardcory]

Sure. He's here ex, which means she prefers me. If meeting some other man is enough to make her change her mind, then we didn't have anything real in the first place

[Anonymous]

I would be his ex in that instant too. What is the need to go meet with your ex when you have someone? For what? only a meet? and alone? why?// yeah no, bye. I don't deserve to be disrespected. People like your girlfriend are so cringe. ICK

[Asker]

She told him to move on - but he keeps on messaging her now and then out of the blue. she told me if he forces then only she will meet him, also she told me to trust her

[Asker]

She said she will meet him in public only

[Opinion Owner]

so with more reason I'd be an instant ex. why meet someone ALONE even in public, she's going alone, more importantly with you who are her boyfriend, to go meet with someone that doesn't want to move on? what kind of retard are you? drop that slut. I would. I don't care how much it hurts, find someone worth your time that values you. There is no reason why ANYONE should go meet another person who is interested in THEM, ALONE when they are in a relationship already, even if it were not her ex, it would still be bad to tell you to trust them and go meet with someone that wants to be with them romantically/sexually etc.. alone. Now being her ex makes it that much more worse. I would not go back to someone like that they show no respect for me, what is the need to go do that.

[Beatrix7]

if i was a guy no i wouldn't unless i was with her u never know he mite use his old words bring up old days good times butter her up and could turn into something more peronal again

[andreasderjuengere]

I'm not in a position to ''allow'' (or not) something that my Missus does.

But I would not like much to see it.

[TrueConfection]

If she wants to meet him, you don't have the option to not "allow" her to do so. The question is, why would she want to meet him?

[Asker]

She told him to move on - but he keeps on messaging her now and then out of the blue. she told me if he forces then only she will meet him, also she told me to trust her

[Asker]

She said she will meet him in public only

[TrueConfection]

I would trust her, but my issue would be in this need for closure that he's demanding. If my ex came along asking to see me, I'd think he was crazy. Not a chance.

[In_Trance]

As long as she would do the same for me