Poly Relationships Dealbreaker?

[avony12]

I’ve been talking to a person for a few weeks and it’s been going well. But recently we’ve be talking about relationships. I’ve asked them if they consider doing poly relationships and they agreed to somewhere down the line. To me i don’t consider myself to ever be in one. It’s not a judgmental thing it’s just not my lifestyle. It is a reason to stop talking to someone?

[Berethor]

It a dealbreaker only if she want to add other man, if she want FFM then I might agree. :)

[slatyb]

It depends on how important it is to them. If you want a monogamous LTR and they don't think they can be happy with that, then it's the best of reasons -- your goals aren't compatible.

[poetic_pisces]

to me that's something Ill never accept

but people are different

and i won't judge those who accept it

[Quackthulu2]

Incompatibility is a reason to stop talking to someone, yes.

[Anonymous]

If they're not fully up for a poly relationship, I don't think it'd work out. Speaking with experience. My ex was only halfheartedly involved.

[es20490446e]

I was offered, and I declined.