What do you guys suggest? I just don’t have it in my heart or energy to care anymore?

[bbhhgirl]

I have asked my boyfriend to stop talking to this girl numerous times. He’d stop but eventually get upset with me and start back talking to her. I have gotten upset many of times but this time I decided I no longer care what I don’t know the better. I have to accept he is a good boyfriend and just leave it alone. I know he likes sex but right now I’m really not sexually attracted to him after that and feel like it’ll be a while before I want to have sex with him again.

[RespectfulGuy]

Many young guys enter a relationship for sex. Once deprived, they will leave.

Yet again, it's a good test if you're looking for a guy who truly loves you.

A few "not today" may reveal his heart.

Yes, he may leave. But are you OK with it if he's only interested in your vagina? You answer.

[slatyb]

Do you really believe you should be able to control who your partner talks to? That's not healthy.

"I’m really not sexually attracted to him after that..." So you are going to punish him by withholding affection? Sounds like you have a great relationship.

[Sirenboobzilla]

What's his connection to her? And what's making you feel off about her?

[Truthatanycost]

Making boundaries you don't enforce is one of the best ways to destroy your self esteem.

[In_Trance]

Dump him