How can I check or know if my lover is two timing me?

[strateguy632]

have you, any gender ever found out that your partner cheated on you, at same time someone else and you two.

how did you? just hearing maybe better not to believe the one who told you instead assumed loyal? or how?

reference film intolerable cruelty "i nailed his as "

[nnniiikliddsi]

Honestly I am learning to not bother. I'd spend minutes scrolling through his followings and even looking through his phone when he is not around. All that, and for what exactly? The truth always comes out one way or another. I just think we shouldn't be on the look out for these kinds of things. We should let ourselves be in the relationship, and then if one discovers there has been someone else as well, then dump his/her ass and find someone better for you. Yes it would hurt, and yes it is not easy. But I also think we need to stress less and develop a mindset where we would view this kind of things as their loss. In reality it would not be our loss as we would have given everything we got to make the relationship work.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Exactly. I've been saying this forever

[strateguy632]

to nn after reading several replies yours seems best quality i wanna give most helpful but no button to click?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You have to wait a day or two before it gives you the option

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Ask her.
If she gets upset and offended... she's lying
If she's calm and collected... she's lying

Basically, women are masters at hiding it because they have no shame. The cheating is justified and they're doing nothing wrong in their minds. You'll never find out unless you catch her in the act (either on her phone or in person).
Just trust that she's not and cross that bridge if and when you get to it. It's not even worth thinking about

[Ben487]

you could bring an attractive friend over to stay at your home for a few days. Pay him a lump sum to hit on your woman and see if she takes the bait. On the downside they may end up having sex but at least you'll know.