I am planning to give a ring to my girlfriend on my birthday - my question is will this show her how important/serious she means to me?

[james_d0007]

I love her to the core and want to show her by proposing her on my birthday that I want to commit for life and be hers only!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Promise rings are a good sign of commitment similar to engagement rings, assuming that’s what it is and not you popping the question.

[Jazzy54]

It sure will. Good luck. 😊

[Adam1978]

Why on your birthday? It's causes conflicts of interest and peer pressure. I suggest that you do it another day when you aren't the focus.

[Boomchakalaca]

I think it shows that despite being the main focus of the day, he wanted to share that with his girlfriend 🤷🏻‍♀️ it is sweet

[Adam1978]

Well it put pressure on her, she won't want to ruin his day, giving a ring is a proposal not a regular gift after all. So there shouldn't be anything that force her to accept something she otherwise wouldn't.

[Boomchakalaca]

Well buddy gonna hav to be rejected on his bday then 😂

[james_d0007]

@Boomchakalaca rejection on my birthday will be the gift of my life, it will make me not want to fall in love any more.

[james_d0007]

@Adam1978
thank you and makes sense to wait for another day

[james_d0007]

@Adam1978
I dont want to pressurize her in anyway because i love her more than anything

[Boomchakalaca]

@james_d0007 lmao thats the risk y'all take. If u know 100% that person reciprocates those feelings then there would be no conflict. When u know, u know!

[james_d0007]

@Boomchakalaca cool

[inhua]

why on your birthday? why not her birthday? or some other day?

[james_d0007]

Its 6months into our relationship
I don't want to be a center of attention on her birthday - its her day
I love her and I thought it could be a perfect time as we would be spending that day together

[inhua]

you're the one giving her the ring so she'll be the center of attention

[Boomchakalaca]

Dating for just 6 months is crazy for marriage

[james_d0007]

@Boomchakalaca there is no perfect time and its an engagement ring not a marriage ring

[gothbxtch]

if you mean like a promise ring, then yeah! that’s very sweet and romantic

[jahaims]

If that is a reason you are doing it don't do it.

[james_d0007]

Why but - I love her and I wanna show what she means to me and also the fact that I wanna spend the rest of my life with her