Do you ever get tired of emotional mind games? And have you ever said enough is enough?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is a great girl, but she always plays these stupid little games where she pulls away and acts like she doesn't care, so I'll chase her again and make her feel wanted.
Which is all I've ever done! How many times do I have to make her feel like she's worth it?
What the fuck about me? Am I worth it?

It's getting to the point where I'm like, if you wanna be with me the offer is on the table, but if you keep pulling this you can go fuck yourself... I got better things to do.
The last time I chased her will be the last time. I'm done.

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Sorry about the rant

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I feel the boyfriend in Key & Peele always saying "Meegan!!"

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend does them sometimes. I can't do them as I get so tired easily

[Asker]

Same here.
What does your boyfriend do?

[Opinion Owner]

Say stuff then backtracks or says he doesn't say it. Sets up traps. We gotta into an argument one day and he played with the knife that I self harmed with previously and he wad laughing

[Opinion Owner]

Stuff like that

[Asker]

Damn. Those are psychopath games. Sorry about that

[Opinion Owner]

I think he is more of a sociopath but oh well lol

[Asker]

Yeah that too lol.
I'm sorry to hear that though. I hope you find a better man, or your love is strong and you're happy with him at least

[Opinion Owner]

Love is strong

[Asker]

That's good 👍

[virtualwasp]

No idea how to advise, I can't get a boyfriend.

[Asker]

Good, don't. Relationships suck

[slatyb]

What's good about the relationship? That's some deep insecurity there. She should get some counseling so she stops ruining relationships.

[Asker]

Agree with you 100%
Hardly anything was good.
We're not talking now, I think it's over 🤷‍♂️

[slatyb]

Be happy for the clean getaway

[Asker]

That's a good point.
Better than being cheated on or some other BS

[exitseven]

I got sick of all the games as well. I was going to give up dating for a while, maybe forever. The next day I met my future wife.

[Asker]

That's awesome. Lucky duck

[exitseven]

Go figure, right?

[Asker]

Seriously. Maybe I'll give it up too lol

[exitseven]

There were a lot of moving parts on that long ago Memorial Day and any one if a dozen things could have gone wrong. The more times I tell the story I keep thinking that nobody would believe it

[Asker]

I'd love to hear it if you want to share. I'm a sucker for a good love story

[Fireguy17]

yeppers.
Life is too short to play kid games when you are an adult.
Time to move on to someone who is more mature than she is.

[Asker]

100%

[Boomchakalaca]

I like feeling wanted and keeping my mans in check. Lol

[Asker]

Lol, she's about your age too.

"But Meegan!! Your jacket!"

[Asker]

😂😂

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t like mind games

[Asker]

Me... neither lol

[BLP11520]

Never liked women f... g with my head

[Asker]

For real. Yet I continuously let them do it 🤦‍♂️

[BLP11520]

mind games... smh

[In_Trance]

I always say enough is enough