What do you do when you find your partners sibling more attractive?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriends brother ticks all the boxes of hotness in my opinion and I want him to choke me and fuck me hard because he looks like he’d be really good at it but I love my boyfriend…. So I don't know 🤷‍♀️ (he look like a sexy bad boy)

[Alli39]

It's ok to think people are hot even when you're in a relationship, just don't act on it and focus on your boyfriend as much as you can. But also, if you want to have sex with other people more than your boyfriend you should probably do a little analysis on that feeling and make sure that it's not signaling a lack of interest in your boyfriend on your part (you can still really care for him even if you find he's not what you're looking for).

But if you're sure your boyfriend is right for you then focus on working with him to make y'all's sexual experiences as mutually satisfying as possible and don't worry to much about the brother. Just stick him on the list of people you can appreciate without ever actually getting involved with (like celebrities etc if you know what I mean)

[Dysney1023]

Sooo finding someone hot is normal, but usually it is good to stuff that thought away. If you can’t do not hurt your boyfriend by cheating! Karma is ruthless to cheaters. You will not win if you cheat. But girl if he is your type I think it’d be best for all of you to break up and try with his brother.

[DannyUk2017]

Your question sounds like You don't know you'r boyfriend that well. Even becoming your boyfriend didn't told you about his family/siblings? You went for your boyfriend for one thing, but found Lust in his brother. You cannot (no one can) Have Everything in One Package! Simple, the best way is to either "help/tell" your boyfriend your fantasies about what you want, or just let him go, otherwise if gid forbids you "hit it on" with his brother and He finds out, ain't gonna be pretty. Better to be Safe than Sorry, so just let him go!

[Avicenna]

I've had a number of gfs whose sister was more attractive (sometimes my girlfriend was the more attractive sister), but the sisters never had as good a personality as the one I was dating. A few had absolutely terrible personalities.

[AviatorTom]

You love your boyfriend so don't act on your desire for his brother. During your personal time, when you pleasure yourself, feel free to fantasize about the brother.

[coachTanthony]

Well as long as all the boxes are ticked dump the other one and get with him. When the next person comes along and tiks off new boxes do the same thing it's called hypergamy. You are born with it.

[BlackBeauty90]

It's not called hypergamy it's called being a whore. Whores, tramps, man sluts, etc. aren't desirable. They think they are because other whores, tramps, sluts, etc want them. All a game of birds of a feather flock together and the undesirable sticking together because nobody else wants them.

But decent people who'll amount to something in life wouldn't touch whores, tramps and sluts unless there's no other option available and even then most decent folk would prefer to stay single or hire a prostitute than waste their life with... the gutter lives.

[Sasha0426]

That’s weird. The doctors never told my parents I had hypergamy when my mom was pregnant with me 🤔

[Finchie40]

Fantasize about it but do not act on it , That be some Jerry Springer shit , if you love your boyfriend and you want your relationship to survive you need to put yourself in your boyfriend’s shoes and think How would you feel if your boyfriend wanted to have sex with your sister? would you want him doing that to you? For love to grow and for a relationship to survive you have to remove selfishness for each other , make each other your top priority , understand you are t single anymore

[BlackBeauty90]

You love your boyfriend but don't respect him.

Do him a favour, get lost. Break up. Let him find a decent & respectable girl/woman who is worthy of his attention and not some cheap tramp that'll always be looking for "hotter" ... when all "hotter" will see you as is pointless sex & valueless beyond that.

[ariadneR]

My bfs sister, is the most gorgeous woman I've ever seen. She's stunning. Would I fuck her? No.

If you have feels for your bfs brother then breakup with your boyfriend. It doesn't matter who is more attractive, everything about it screams no.

[Anonymous]

Men and women finding their partner's sibling soooo much more hotter happens so often I wonder if it's not some kind of greener grass psychological thing. Like how come every person is dating the ugly sibling? It must be in the head for me. When it comes to men it might be the obsession with getting the younger they can get tho as it mostly happens when the sibling is younger.

[Opinion Owner]

To actually reply to the question, I would say get over it or break up before you try to cheat. You won't be able to have a healthy relationship while desiring a close family member of your partner so hard. Also men stick with each others so I doubt they will ruin their relationship over you. Even if you get what you want you will end up discarded and mocked like you're some whore when they get tired of it and want to be bros again.

[Luopio27]

Someone once here in GaG said blood is thicker thsn water. It was the answer to a sinilar question.


If you break up or recomend a threesome or a guilt free pass, you are highly likely gona get dumped like a potato sack. Afterwards, you won't have chances with the brother because family members dont let outsiders stab their hearts.

[clampfan101]

What’s important is staying loyal.
I suggest being casual friends with them. If things don’t work out with your current boyfriend, you’ve already got a connection while having been a loyal partner. (Or if their sibling found someone first, you knew it wasn’t meant to be anyway.)

[Anonymous]

damn you can’t be trusted😨 sometimes your partner has good looking relatives that doesn’t mean you should be fantasizing about having sex with them. Yes you can acknowledge in your mind that they are attractive that you find them attractive but to be imagining having sex and wanting that to come true is too far down the hole. Like honestly your already cheating in my eyes because you said you want him to.

[CubsterShura]

Hey, just because the sibling is more physically attractive doesn't mean that I'm more attracted to him.

The guy in currently with is an only child though, and he's the whole package himself.

[WhitneySnow]

Fantasize about his brother. Fantasies are harmless. If you love your boyfriend stay loyal to him.

[gothbxtch]

break up with your partner. also made me think of this song lol

https://www.youtube.com/embed/mI5zGIbKj_w

[Truthatanycost]

Has anyone ever noticed that almost every time a woman mentions loving someone, they go on to demonstrate that they don't love them at all...

[Staximus]

Your boyfriend will hate you and his brother forever and you will piss off the whole family. Stop thinking with your pussy and start thinking with your brain. And nevermind that stupid choking shit. It's all fun and games until somebody dies.

[Sasha0426]

Let your boyfriend fuck a girl that’s hot. It’s only fair 🤷‍♀️ Thing is you can’t get mad and it can’t only be a one-way street. If you want to fuck his brother, let your boyfriend find a another girl.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Why would she let her boyfriend cheat on her?

[Sasha0426]

Because she wants to cheat on him 🤷‍♀️

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

But two wrongs doesn’t equal one right

[Sasha0426]

I’m a petty person. If I was in this situation, you bet your ass I’ll come back tenfold.

[Anonymous]

Ignore the comments here... flirt with him without giving away and if he's into you... get pinned and fucked by him and never let anyone know!

[Spongebobssocks]

Get help and stay away from both. Your boyfriend deserves better

[balyai]

Your boyfriend deserves better. Be honest with him and leave him

[Asker]

I’ve told my boyfriend he deserves better and all of it but he refuses to leave me and says if we break up he’d kill himself

[genericname85]

well would you like your boyfriend to ditch you for your hotter sister? treat people how you want to be treated.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Its common for women to find their boyfriends siblings attractive

[Anonymous]

Choices are
A). Bone the brother once or twice, forget the relationship, then bail.
B) Bail. It just got too complicated
C) Control yourself. Keep the boyfriend, ignore the brother.

[Jamie05rhs]

This is why "do you have any siblings?" should be one of the first questions you ask whenever you meet someone.

[Sasha0426]

Yes! Make sure someone is an only child.

[Sasha0426]

This should be a new thing. Society needs to enforce this when it comes to dating.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sasha0426 I'm just saying, make sure first. Lol

[Sasha0426]

Then let’s make this a new rule. Having siblings is a red flag because it indicates you’re a cheater.

[Sasha0426]

You have to be an only child. Or, if you have siblings, you have to disown them.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sasha0426 Hahaha. Noo. That's not what I meant.
I mean when you meet someone, meet their family as well. And find out if you are more attracted to one of their other siblings. If you are, don't date that person.

[Sasha0426]

I like my way better. It’s easier and it’ll prove your loyalty.

[Sasha0426]

So avoid anyone who has siblings. There’s a 100% chance they have cheated.

[Sasha0426]

I have siblings. I may have never been in a relationship before, but it’s an indicator I’ll cheat. And same with my future partner.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sasha0426 I think you've got it backwards.

[trexxx707]

I say flirt hard then after you breakup just go for it if you think he's into it too. Then never tell people who shouldn't find out (like ur ex)

[Brinadarlingxx]

Damn. Maybe ask your boyfriend to fuck you like you want? If you’re having those cravings let him know. If you’re just lusting after the brother, let the poor guy go.

[TacosRAwesome]

Never had the problem with their siblings. Occasionally had it with their friends.

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe think of him when you are masturbating or having sex.

[Anonymous]

You are hoe, shallow and disgusting! You are asking permission to cheat. You don't deserve any guy.

[Asker]

Why say this anonymously when you truly feel that way? you’re a coward

[Opinion Owner]

Fuckoff

[shades777]

sounds like your going to cheat on your boyfriend and should breakup and date a man you actually respect

[msc545]

You will never be satisfied wih any man as there will always be another more attractive one. Give up on men altogether.

[dazzafromoz]

I would 100% fuck her sibling if the opportunity was there.

[Anonymous]

it's like death... near to death... very very bad thing... you can not do that to your partner... in family that's very much dangerous... considering like death or murder

[Anonymous]

Have your boyfriend do what you want his brother to do, dim the lights and pretend it's him? I don't know.

[Anonymous]

You sound pretty much like close to a definition of devil.

[strateguy632]

i asked her out

[Peter_Penetrator]

Pray neither of you get busted.

[ProbablyClueless]

lol you just grit your teeth and bear it.

[ButthurtGAGpeople1]

You leave the entire family alone

[Anonymous]

there's no winning that one, you have to walk away

[riverrat3]

But which one do you get along with better

[Fuentes]

Fucked up