Should I change how I dress?

[guest2625]

to summarize me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. I've always dressed normal, maybe revealing when i go out during the summer, but over time I've gained weight so my boobs are bigger so i obviously have more cleavage. he saw this before we dated, he saw what i posted on instagram and yet when i go out now with friends wearing a tight dress or show cleavage its ALWAYS a problem. he expected me to dress more conservative when i got into a relationship? but i never had this problem with my ex. even if he doesn't comment on my outfit, its very apparent because his mood changes and then i feel insecure in my outfit. am i in the wrong? he doesn't think he's the problem? what do i do? i dont want to base my outfits based on his opinion. i dress for myself and I've always have dressed the same? should i be dressing more conservative?

[Nikki1989]

Dress for yourself, not for any man.

[DextroShade]

You should not be going out wearing revealing clothing unless he's with you. If you are going to bars and clubs it's often a deal-breaker for a relationship with many men especially if they are high value.

[guest2625]

I can see where you’re coming from but even he told me he’d rather have me dress revealing with friends than with him. Like he doesn’t want to deal with guys staring at me while he’s with me. So I feel like this is an insecurity issue? And not a high value one? He tells me not to post revealing photos but likes girls half naked (and not famous or influencers). So it’s hypothetical?

[guest2625]

Hypocritical*

[Anonymous]

I say dress however you want.