Im 19, it’s been a year since I completely changed my appearance. I used to be a redhead with green eyes, but I did a laser surgery the next day after I closed 18 years old , make them blue, had a nose job and I also dyed my hair blonde, plus of having a fake tan.
Now I am a blondie with blue eyes, and a tanned skin, even tho I never truly wanted to be one, but since it was considered the ultimate beauty standard, I felt that being a redhead with pale skin and green eyes would leave me as a seconde option, cause I would constantly hear men saying that blue eyed and blonde hair were the best color and that everything else came secondly!
Now I am receiving a lot of compliment from men, but I feel that they don’t love the real me, which is a redhead with pale skin and green eyes. They only love me because I look like a barbie doll ( they always compliment me because of these features, but they never did with my ex-coloring), which means, that I would have only been a second option. But I still feel so bad about my self, I wish I could feel confident the way I was, and now I’m feeling depressed, to see that I had to become someone else. Is it weird that I’m not happy with my results, despite being prettier and more popular with men?
Is weird that I regret changing my apparence even tho I’m better looking?
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Anonymous
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ewww you're one of those. I feel bad for you.. you will go blind if you don't go remove those fake eyes.
I never understood people like you who want to be liked by everyone, even looking the way you do, you still will not achieve that.. that type of blond looks to "try hard" to be considered "natural" beauty even if it were natural, it just looks 'forced'... strong makeup and bleached hair instead of subtle makeup and non bleach blonde. As long as one person loves you how you are, the person that will be with you for the rest of your life, that's the only thing that matters in the end, instead of just being awed by everyone and in the end staying alone... we all get old anyway regardless of how ugly or beautiful we once were and the same guys that once found you attractive will switch you in an instant for a younger prettier brunette that probably never even had any artificialities.
if they are normal contacts.. it's not so bad.. but if you did this disgusting bright ocular surgery, they don't even look nice in real life, they still look pretty FAKE, and within 5 or so years, you'll be blind plus have super ugly eyes with dark patchy foggy non fixable iris. gross. go remove that if that is what you did, before you become depressed with awful aftermath.
I want a nose job so bad. I think it’ll make me go from a F- to a solid C+ I wouldn’t regret it. Let’s face it women are judged based on their looks. Your looks as a women can really determine the outcome of your life. Unless you work super hard or meet the right people.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Never heard the eye color changing thing before. Red hair is my second favorite hair color, beaten only by black. My favorite eye color is green, but I'm appreciating brown (especially since most black haired girls have it). These are simply for aesthetic beauty as I was pheromonally attracted to a woman with pale skin, long beautiful red hair, and had brown eyes. I'm sad to hear that you've taken this long to accept your true appearance, you can find eternal acceptance in Jesus Christ if you turn to him. Those qualities you sought are finite, but spiritual qualities last forever. What you do in this life matters.
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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I’m not sure if it’s weird that you regret it. But what you are probably feeling a little down for changing the look you was naturally born with. It is what it is now. If you think you look pretty and that was the goal you was aiming for, be proud of it. I’m pretty sure you thought long and hard about having surgery. Embrace your new look and floss it! Good luck and God speed.
It's normal to feel that way because you realized that men are probably more interested in the way you look than in getting to know you better and maybe they can't see that you're so much more than a pretty face. Give it some time if you keep feeling depress seek for medical attention.
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How do you feel about that? Cause I can’t help but noticing how men are extremely and cruelly shallow 😖. No matter how pretty you are, they will always upgrade you for someone who’s better looking ( aka blonde, and younger) the seconde where the occasion shows up. Am I mentally deranged for thinking that about them?
It's totally normal, I would say dye you hair red again, the blue eyes is a minor things I think if you dye your hair back to your natural color you'll feel better
