What are the top 7 things a man needs to be successful in a relationship?

[hello123456789]

What are the top seven things a man needs to be successful in a relationship? (For example, 100k Income, Looks, Good job, Good morals, commitment, etc.)

[BarryLiverstone]

In no particular order:


1. Hygiene and grooming: ladies invest in this so guys better smell clean and present well. And brush your teeth!


2. Love yourself and be authentic. You can’t love others till you learn who you are and can feel proud of that person. This allows you to stop faking and lying and just be true to your feelings in all situations.


3. Commit to a career and have discipline. In order to be success you can’t spend lots of time playing games and goofing off. Actually focus on your job, work over time, and negotiate to level up. Develop coping skills to not slack off and stay consistent.


4. Interpersonal skills and social networking. No man is an island. If you isolate yourself and don’t have friends, if you hate on coworkers and shun your family then when you need help you have no one to turn to. So work on people skills and leverage contacts. Need a date? Then get one via friends. Want a better job? Get to the interview through someone who works there.


5. Responsibility and how to fail over and over again without giving up. Successful people are risk takers and they will fail much more often than those people who never try. But they also are responsible in understanding the risk and know how to recover after failing over and over.


6. Communication. Shocker.. if you want to date and pursue long term relationship then you gotta actually talk to girls, listen to them actively, share emotions and thoughts, understand their needs and when to set boundaries. The ebbs and flows of all relationships require both people to connect and see each perspective. Unless you feel them and vibe, likely it can crash hard.


7. A huge dick! (Comedy for the gaggers). Actually you have to be healthy and attractive and in shape and fit her subjective needs regarding someone to protect and keep her safe and secure. Not only now but as a family down the line. Can’t be lazy or a couch potato unless it’s obese dating obese. She’s gotta know you can get shit done and can totally rely on you in the storm.

[hello123456789]

@BarryLiverstone
Bro... thanks your input but don't talk on this subject again. Don't answer anybof my questions. You talk too much and you a huge SIMP... wise crack.

[hello123456789]

* any of

[BarryLiverstone]

Which of these did you disagree with?

[KrakenAttackin]

Depends on how he defines success. If banging a shit-ton of thots is the goal, he needs to be a tall Chad with no mercy whatsoever.

If he wants to be the simp/beta/provider that marries a post-wall, carousel riding, single mothers, he had better have a lot of money and a good job to keep the money rolling after the divorce court rape.

If he is an average guy, he needs to go overseas to find a non-western woman, who is feminine, kinda, and not over-fucked.

[Yannishka]

Seven... that's a lot 🤔

He has to be open with me. (Likes, dislikes, worries, good, bad)

He has to be loyal. (No cheating, no flirting)

He has got to be a reflection of myself.

We have the same life goals (kids or not, marriage or not, ...).

He's healthy and takes good care of himself.

He makes me feel at ease, safe, home when I am with him.

He makes my life feel more full. Complete.

[jennifer_bloom]

1 - Loyalty

2 - Honesty

3 - Courage

4 - Compassion

5 - Gratitude

6 - Honour

7 - Productivity

[Nikki1989]

• Good personality
• Compromise
• Kindness
• Loyalty
• Communication
• Respect
• Intimacy-physical and emotional

[BarryLiverstone]

Our lists nearly match. Jelly yours is more concise

[hello123456789]

All women say this,

But they really just want an athletic man, with a decent smile, who is well educated, makes good good money, and is generous and loyal.

The good personality, kindness, Communication, and respect... please...

[hello123456789]

@BarryLiverstone you need to get a lofe bro. You sound like a damn Simp.

[hello123456789]

@BarryLiverstone bro! Stop simping! Bro! What are you agreeing with them for?

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m probably a simp if you are using that word twice. Can you tell me what a simp is?

[WhitneySnow]

Most guys don’t make 100K and still manage to find girlfriends, but the others are all important.