Debate, Who is right?

[Anonymous]

Your family is strict and constantly asks your boyfriend to go grocery shopping with you (his girlfriend) and go from store to store for about half the day. One day, your sister leaves the house (for good) and things are bad. your parents are distraught refusing to do anything but cry in bed. You call your boyfriend late at night and tell him there is no food at home that you’ll probably have to see if he can take you grocery shopping. He says ONE store. You say ill see, ill call u tomorrow bc what if i need you? He says thats fine, ill be here. You call and he says he won't take you because he is with his brother and his SO who just came down from 2 towns over. He has told you in the past he values family. You are upset but your boyfriend doesn’t understand why. Who is right?

Girl

Guy

Kinda both … ill explain why below

[BoopBoopBeep]

@DaisyM23 nailed it. You sound incredibly needy and your parents seem insufferable. Call an uber and get your own groceries if you don't have a car, first and foremost, secondly, if I am feeling charitable to take you somewhere you don't get to dictate that it's going to be half a dozen stores. I'll take you to one. Your behavior and entitlement will determine if I take you back from there.

[DaisyM23]

accidentally clicked girl when i was going for guy - i don't understand why the girl can't go by herself and why she goes to multiple stores as well for half the day that's incredibly annoying, the family sound so hard to put up with and i don't know why/how the guy has for so long - yes, he has technically gone back on his word but give the guy a break it sounds like a legitimate excuse and the girl needs to learn how to do things by herself

[slatyb]

Your family is abusing both him and you by sending you on absurd errands.