Guys, Why do you flee when things get tough?

[NewHopeGir33]

My baby daddy jumped ship once He found Out I was pregnant, I reached out to see if i could get some help and I got the police round saying I am harrashing him.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If the going gets tough the tough get going & I’m sorry to hear your baby daddy jumped ship & is he the father of your soon to be child? If so make him pay for leaving if not good for him.

[Grovermint]

It's your fault for choosing poorly. Why is it every guy to blame, when it's ultimately up to you to screen someone? I've seen plenty of ladies get together with deadbeats that already have multiple children they don't take care of and wonder why it happens to them.

[genericname85]

i don't wanna be sarcastic of difficult. but your question makes me wonder: why do women make children with guys like that? is there not a way to know that about a person? and should you not avoid having children with a guy like that?

[NewHopeGir33]

I didn't know he was gonna flee, he seemed nice when we started talking but as soon as I said I was pregnant he jumped ship

[genericname85]

yeah so there is 2 fuck ups here right. fuck up number one is on his side. he should not leave after making a woman pregnant. the other fuck up is on your side. you should make absolutely sure not to get pregnant with a guy that is not a reliable partner.

i undertand accidents happen but there's definitely not just a fault on his side here.

[genericname85]

so i'm not saying what he did is right. but i am saying that you also failed your responsibility here.

[NewHopeGir33]

I've been told 7 x by different doctors I would find it difficult to get pregnant. I admitt I stupidly agreed to have unprotected sex

[genericname85]

well that's something i would say the majority of people in this situation do not concede. so good on your for that.

[josefff]

I don't flee I take responsibility for my own actions.

[msc545]

Considering that the government will threaten us with death quite literally, if we don't pay child support, what the hell do you expect us to do?

[exitseven]

Damn, girls should know better than to have sex with losers like that.

[jeffend888]

The fact that you are 28 years old and said the words baby daddy ruins all of your credibility.

[BigDog1989]

Because thats his right to. You though, have a right to sue him for child support, if you so choose

[Throwawaynowknow]

It's common for men to cheat down far more then women

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope and if I got a woman pregnant I'd never leave her cause I don't want some other guy raising my kids

[Alex8736]

I always take on the challenge and move forward what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger

[Anonymous]

Because his father didn't want to ruin his life. If my teenage son got a woman pregnant, he would just send him to another country.

[KrakenAttackin]

Paternity test.

[msc545]

Hell yes!