My girlfriend calls me dumb, stupid, and other things when I do something that's dumb is that normal and okay?

[hardboiledink]

I don't call her an idiot when she does stupid things but she tends to call me stupid, dumb, or whatever else is that normal? She says she's just kidding but I told her I don't like it and it's still a habit she has.

It's really under my skin

[A_Bell]

Fo you tease each other or is it meant to hurt? Some relationships use meaningless insults to avoid taking life so seriously. Guys I'm around call each other all sorts of names but they are close friends. Sadly most of us women usually read insults into things that aren't even insults.

[hardboiledink]

I think I'm reading into insults maybe. But she calls me Dumb, stupid, whore

[A_Bell]

Well that doesn't read like friendly banter.

[LazerBean]

No, it's not okay. It means she's either trailer trash or just stupid.

[hardboiledink]

Lol yeah

[Billlewis]

If I were dating her and she called me names like that, I'd be so excited, I'd be even sweeter to her than I was before:)

[slatyb]

No, is abusive. End this. She's not ready for a relationship.

[Anemone978]

No.. it isn't okay I had someone call me names like that but it was cuz he wasn't super into me..

[hardboiledink]

Did you end up with the ahole? In my situation I find it very disrespectful especially after all I've done for her, shown her, and paid for

[Anemone978]

Nah he didn't treat me how I wanted him to so we ended up going are opposite ways.. the reason I put up for it for a few months was because he was hot LOL

[hardboiledink]

Lol I see

[jiffer]

That's not ok. Especially if you communicated that to her. She should respect you and it seems like she does not.

[Anonymous]

No that's not okay. That can be seen as verbal abuse.

[sheikalana]

That's disrespectful.

[hardboiledink]

Yes it is. Thanks

[Libidononexistenteww]

I’ve only heard of this when men talk down first

[Jmmmfi4]

That definitely wouldn't work with me