Do you think there is always a masculine and feminine energy in relationships or its just a stereotype🤔?

[Spongebobssocks]

I've noticed even in relationships where there are two men or two women they're usually a "feminine" and a "masculine" energy. Or I'm wrong?

That's true I've noticed it too

Sometimes yes but not always

No never

[Unit1]

I'll cite from Wikipedia.

Standards of manliness or masculinity vary across different cultures, subcultures, ethnic groups and historical periods. Traits traditionally viewed as masculine in Western society include strength, courage, independence, leadership, and assertiveness.

Traits traditionally cited as feminine include gracefulness, gentleness, empathy, humility, and sensitivity, though traits associated with femininity vary across societies and individuals, and are influenced by a variety of social and cultural factors.

I call bollocks on all that.

It is made up to push humans into oddly shaped boxes, that they may find themselves in varying degrees of discomfort.

So f♥♥k it.

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay so you dont think all of that comes natrually you think its forced?:)

[Unit1]

it may or may not come naturally. Some force themselves. Why? I don't know. I don't force things.

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay, intressting:)

[Unit1]

It's called free thinking and critical thinking. These 2 things are what schools despise the most.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah im not putting my input in just wanna hear other peoples view in it

[nastyb]

If being feminine requires kindness. Then most women wouldn't be feminine. Reality is women are so mean to each other. This is coming from a nurse who works in a female dominated field

[Unit1]

@nastyb imagine not being kind as a man because of it

[Spongebobssocks]

@nastyb 100% agree! Women are the most passive agressive

[nastyb]

@Unit1

Both men and women are the basically the same for the most part in terms of kindness. But if i had to pick which is nicer... i would say women. I only say this because women tend to be more caring and warmer than men. Not all women, but generally speaking

[Unit1]

@nastyb I have weird experiences with the opposite sex. Me wants girls and receives hostility kind of often enough.

[nastyb]

@Unit1

Women tend to hide their meanness better than men. When men are mean, they dont try to hide it very well. Women know how to put on a good facade.

[nastyb]

@Unit1

From my experience, men aren't nicer when it comes to rejecting women. I , myself, have been treated very rudely by men who rejected me. And i think society never talks about this because women rarely ever approach men.

[Unit1]

@nastyb Yeah, fair enough. That just shows how socially inept people are. It's up to us to rise above that.

[nastyb]

@Unit1

Most people are "nice" but very few people are kind. There is a big difference between nice versus kind

[Unit1]

@nastyb I know it first hand. All nice on the front. But very nasty on the inside and behind. I hate them.

[nastyb]

@Unit1

But you gotta realize tho... nobody is 100% kind all the time. Even kind people can say mean things at some point in their lives

[Unit1]

@nastyb That can be. I know however some, that on record have not done that from the moment I knew them.

[nastyb]

@Unit1

you're not around them 24/7. You would have no real way of knowing.

[Unit1]

@nastyb and i don't need to.

[nastyb]

@Unit1

just because someone doesn't seems really nice, it doesn't mean they never say mean things about others. Never trust facades or first impressions.

[Unit1]

@nastyb
someone doesn't seems really nice.
doesn't mean they never say mean things about others.

I think I just understood, that water is wet.

[nastyb]

@Unit1

sweetie, some of the nicest people I met turned out to the worst , most evil monsters.

just be careful with your assumptions.

[Unit1]

@nastyb yeah right

[Grond21]

Oh yeah, that's very true. They are imitating the real relationship

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah that's what I was thinking

[Grond21]

You are right

[Spongebobssocks]

👍🏻

[Emii_Urashima]

This is a strange phenomenon that it seen mostly in western cultures, and especially in the USA. I have never understood this. In lesbian relationships in Asian cultures, both women are all female. I don't understand the point of this "western-style" lesbianism where one of them dresses like an man and does a very poor job of it. Usually their male clothes are very out-of-date, like a grandfather would wear. These "butch" women I have seen try to look and act as masculine as possible, and it is like a bad comedy. It is like they are role-playing as a lesbian couple.

[Spongebobssocks]

Them being both female is not related to the subject thats biology I mean how they act and dress. But so you are saying its a western thing only?😊

[Emii_Urashima]

I can't say for sure, but this has been my experience when visiting the USA and the UK. I can't speak for other European countries or South American countries. As far as Asia goes, I have never seen a butch Japanese, Korean, or Chinese women, but there may be some well-hidden. 🤣

[Spongebobssocks]

Haha okay fair enough😅👍🏻

[nastyb]

masculine energy and feminine energy does exist.

but if you think wearing dresses, high heels and going for weekly pedicures is the definition of feminine... you are wrong.

some of the most assertive masculine women always have their nails done and wear dresses.

most people in the west DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT FEMININE ACTUALLY MEANS

[Spongebobssocks]

What is feminine then? You mean natrual nature? Like nurturing etc?

[EricSummer]

It sometimes happens but not always.

This "butch and femme" style became popular about 100 years ago. It had a major influemce on how heteros see homosexual women as it seemed to confirm their stereotypes.

Anyway, we should remember that lesbian women are attracted by other women. We should not think that they are looking for a replacement of a man in any way.

[electromagnetic]

Yes and no. I come some couples that really play into that role. But I also k ow other female couples that are both extremely girly girl.

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay intressting

[inhua]

yes because no relationship can exist where the two energies are the same

[Spongebobssocks]

Intressting

[Andres77]

I saw an interview many years ago and the two lesbians talked about how “ one was butch, and the other was the fem”

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay intressting. So maybe it is true?🤔

[Anonymous]

No, in the case of her photograph, it's because that lesbian must have some hormonal imbalance in testosterone, that's why it's masculine.

[Spongebobssocks]

Oh I meant like how they act and dress not so much their hormones but okay:)

[TonyMetal___86]

Maybe but i only believe in men and women relationship...

[Spongebobssocks]

Same:)

[TonyMetal___86]

😊👍🏻

[Reem12345reem]

I have A LOT of gay friends and that's 99% of the case , top/bottom , masculine/feminine , dominant/submissive , or else there would be no attraction

[Peter_Penetrator]

Someone will be wearing the strap-on in the relationship.

[Ava1993]

I think it’s just a stereotype. Their are time we use masculine energy most when out on a date.

[Abdulwahh]

Yes i believe so it's very crucial and an important aspect to attraction

[bingbongbangbung]

WHY ARE YOU POSTING A PIC OF THAT ABUSER?

[Spongebobssocks]

Loll 👀

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

That has definitely been my observation.

[Spongebobssocks]

🙃👍🏻

[Pete671]

Yes absolutely, Yin and Yang,,,

[Spongebobssocks]

👍🏻

[Alex8736]

A butch and a bitch you mean?

[Spongebobssocks]

Loll what? No..

[NathanDavis]

that's just Hollywood stuff

[Exterminatore]

Between heterosexual couples, I think so.

[rigmarole]

Nope.