Do you get jealous of other people getting married finding love?

[Anonymous]

While you are still single and still hoping someone might come in your life.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes. Yes.
But I don’t believe in marriage or religion. I want the partnership part. Without the marriage or kids or babies.

But then many women in partnerships complain that their man is controlling, abusive, some women chose a beta cuck boy, or an undesirable to not be lonely. And I refuse to fuck some gross-fuck because of loneliness. No thanks. Make sure you sleep with guys or hang out or go on dates. But don’t settle for low pickings. 😬😬😬 yikes. My sisters boyfriend basically behaves gay. And my cousin literally chose some short Latin dude with a gut. In his 30’s. 😬😬😬 I don’t even know how they get wet.
I literally don’t understand how they get wet. I don’t even know how the “wet part” is supposed to happen. Those guys are bottom of the barrel.

[Sasha0426]

You must be fun to be around. If I was your sister, I would disown you real quick.

[Opinion Owner]

@Sasha0426
If you were my sister that disowned me…
THE FEELINGS MUTUAL. LIKEWISE. 👍

[Opinion Owner]

@Sasha0426
I wouldn’t be surprised if her man is actually sucking dick on the side. 😂

[Lady_Heart]

No, i actually feel good n hopefully when i see people in love and marrying. Because it mean i will find love too, the more the merrier

[Meropatrick]

No because i have seen the end of this Road with my parents and many other couples. They end up in divorce or just dead end sexless marriage. I know not all end up like that but the majority do end up bitter. Ask any divorce lawyer how horrible and bitter this Road of marriage mostly ends. One lawyer his name is mr sexton (weird name i know) Google him. He said he usually ask his clients to see their wedding photos. he wanted to see if they ever even loved eachothers from how bitter they acted during their messy divorce. I am ok with not dating or having flings while enjoying the love from my family and friends. If i ever wanted a child i will adopt or maybe opt for a surrogate which is unlikely. But i won't risk getting drained in a messy divorce

[Anonymous]

Nope. Because I can honestly say I've tried. Just because I won't sacrifice all that I am and humiliate myself just so I can fit some silly societal ideal does not make my path the wrong one.

I don't worry about this anymore. If a woman comes into my life and she really wants to know and understand me, cool. If not, why would my life have less meaning?

The REALITY is most people in relationships are not happy. They don't love eachother and are putting on a sham for the world (like most things in thier fabricated life). Let me ask you what is worse being alone? Or being in a relationship and still being alone? Why would I be jealous of that?

[Asker]

Lol being in a relationship and still being alone is worse.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. The world needs to stop obsessing about relationships and who's in one and who isn't and if they're going to obsess about something obsess about the quality of thier relationships. Because if you aren't trying to do right by someone you shouldn't even be wasting either of yours time.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No because I don't think that way.

Imagine you are in a grocery store, and someone took the last box of donuts, but you don't want donuts, you want icecream, but the store didn't stock any icecream in the last 20 years, so no one has any.

I want a relationship badly, but I don't see anyone with "icecream" to be jealous of.
In my case, the icecream represents a woman I have everything in common with, be it hobbies, interests, etc, and that I find attractive.

Most relationships that other people have are mismatches, so they aren't going to work out, thus there is nothing to be jealous of.

[Al_Musafir]

No need to. Some people get married early (like 20-22 years of age) and their partner expires by the age of 27-28. Other may get married at 30-35 and last till 80-85. You never know what's best and what's written for everyone. Be at your pace and don't panic. Rightful spouse comes eventually if it's for your good.

[Mamaliv]

Nope, good for them! Been there done that, it’s over rated and unnecessary in my opinion. I feel like marriage is showing ownership and that just rubs me wrong.

[Monalisa77]

Yes, my times ticking away from me and im doing everything i can

[Anonymous]

No. I found one person, but I completely failed. Now I am hoping someone else will come along.

[Asker]

How failed?

[Opinion Owner]

I waited to long to make my move.

[boggboss]

Nope then again I never suffered with loneliness so maybe that's the factor

[JosyJosy]

No, if they stay married, I'll be at least impressed.

[Wise4myage]

No, at least not yet anyway. Maybe when I am older.

[Anonymous]

No.. im more focused on getting my life together. Other people’s marriages dont mean crap to me.

[Sweetsurprize]

Lots of strong people here, not conforming to society's expectations. However, don't you get scared you will not pass on your genes?

[jimmy2]

Well no guarantee those who got married are in Love. So many marriage end in Divorce and it the children who pay the price

[Sweetsurprize]

Honestly, I love my parents and all but if they divorced, I wouldn't give a shit. It's THEIR marriage, and it's none of my business what they do with their relationship.

[Anonymous]

Only if the girl is smoking hot. This has never caused me any envy if she's not.

[Sasha0426]

And this is why you’ll never find someone or have a healthy and successful relationship.

[thatcreepingchickkk]

Yes especially when I be watching kdramas

[haana]

nope. never. i’m happy with my single life

[ohmyguy]

Ya it's fair to say yes a bit..

[brownup]

Jealousy eats u up.. avoid at all costs

[dolemite58]

nope most people get divorced anyways

[Ava1993]

No I’m happy with what I have.

[love_conquers_lust]

Yup.

[MaxUsefull]

In a way…yes

[jazz25]

Nope