If someone doesn't want to talk to you again in person or ignores you and they died would you attend their funeral?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

If it's cool with thier relatives. I can think of a friend who's been unemployed for a few years. I've tried to help him get a job. I haven't been able to determine if he's unwilling to settle for an entry level job or he simply doesn't want to work. Every attempt to talk to him is met with hostility from him. I've gotten to the point where I've had to kind of disconnect from him though I keep tabs on him through his brothers. I worry about him because I know he's not happy.

If he was to die for what some inexplicable reason he might not want me going to his funeral but his family would I'm sure.

I guess what I'm saying is while a funeral honors the person it's for it's not really for them. It's for thier relatives. It's so they can say goodbye. It gives them closure and allows them to move with thier life.

[Asker]

Okay I am the same way. I dont have a job and people keep asking me why I dont work? When they dont know Im suffering from a disease and just hurts inside. Maybe your friend has depression, or is sick thats why she doenst like it when some people are kinda meddling with her I know you are only concern but maybe there are other reasons why she won't get a job. You have to ask her.

[Opinion Owner]

Well he might be depressed by I don't think there any medical problem. His brother has a medical issue and he still works. Either way I'm not harassing him. I've kind of washed my hands of the whole deal. I just wish him well now.

[Wise4myage]

That would all depend on how well I knew that person

[TruthBeTold77]

No I wouldn't. I honestly don't even go funerals of people that did speak to me 🤷

[HelpfulWoman]

nope. they didn't want to speak to me in life, they probably don't want me there

[Anonymous]

Probably not.