What will you do if you learn that this guy is cheating on his SO?

[Anonymous]

You are family friends of this couple. She is very beautiful, had many chances to sleep around and more but is very faithful. He in turn sleeps around when on business trips. He sometimes visits brothels as well. You know because he sometimes boasts about all this. Should you tell her?

Never will I tell her. She should find out on her own like Tiger Woods and Elin.

I will tell her when I meet her next time

I will send an anonymous letter to her and ask her to hire a private agent

[Ozanne]

Stay out of it. It never seems to end well with friends, even when friends make some kind of pact together to tell each other if they know someone is cheating. I've made that mistake many times, and all that ended up happening was the friend believed her boyfriend, the boyfriend then got the friend to turn against me. Friendship over. I've also done the "If you don't tell her, I will" threat. Still, same result.

I like the idea of anonymously saying something, but really, unless this whole thing affects you, you still have no idea what the truth really is, and should stay out of it.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Odds are on some level she knows already, is embarrassed by it. And you telling her is just going to make her embarrassment public.

If I knew him I would find excuses to not have any dealings with him anymore.

I actually know a woman's whose husband is cheating on her. Has for years, everybody knows, but nobody rubs it in her face. She isn't going to leave him.

[boggboss]

I would probobly separate myself from them and tell him I can't associate with him if this is how he acts as for telling her it depends how close we are

[Anonymous]

You don't do the bitch. You simply stay silent