Boyfriend came home with makeup on his top? am I being insecure?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend 26 came home today with makeup all over his white top and he went out to a big city for his birthday. I’m not sure if I’m dramafic or if I’m just 35 weeks pregnant. He came back and I saw it and he said that it was from a hostess at the club who was hugging him. I feel sad because I’ve had an interview for that job before and you’re not usually allowed to hug the customers. He said they had liquor and a sign for his birthday and the girls hugged him but he’s literally got it everywhere all over the shoulder. Am I being insecure and jealous here? My friends are telling me that I’m stupid if I believe it was from just a hug. There is about loads of spots and it smells of a women’s perfume…

[strawberrybaby3]

Your 35 weeks pregnant and your boyfriend leaves you to go celebrate his birthday where other women are going to be all over him? Lol, I’d be very suspicious about that too. I mean the story does sound possible and it depends on the way he reacted to you asking about his shirt and how he told the story, but even that situation would make me uncomfortable.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Tie him up on bed and leave him there until he apologizes and begs you forgiveness

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ll teach you how.

So… You gently kiss him,

then go down, unzip his pants and push him on bed, make him think he’s getting something,

Then move up, feel his stomach and shoulders, put his shoulders up and tie one by one.

Then leave him on bed with his erected penis, until he tells where those kisses are from.

What the hell.

You are pregnant with his child and he goes around getting kisses from hostesses?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Okay… I got a bit emotional thinking the father of a child would celebrate his birthday with someone else and leave the pregnant girlfriend alone at home.

There must be a better way of dealing with it other than tying him up on bed.

[Anonymous]

It's possible he is telling the truth. Just because they say you can't hug the customer doesn't mean some of them don't hug the customers who go there especially if it is their birthday.

He was honest with you about where he went wasn't he? He didn't hide it from you. From the sounds of your question it doesn't sound like he got defensive either about the subject which defensive behaviour tends to be a major sign someone has cheated.

[Anonymous]

Possibly. Strategically placed.

[Anonymous]

That is never a good sign.