Guys, He's blocked me?

[Anonymous]

Not just on the phone but social media too.

We had an argument based on the fact that he will not clarify if we are an item or not.

We have this same argument every month and it's cause I get frustrated that he can't make up his mind.

He paid a lot of money to visit me in two weeks time and booked hotel and flights. Before he blocked me he said we are finished and he's not visiting. He's never blocked me before, do you think he's not going to see me now?

[Constatine]

" He paid a lot of money to visit me in two weeks time and booked hotel and flights."

So he paid a lot of money to see you... If he did not thought of you as an item he would never do that

Yet you still had to ask and had to have that discussion every month

he was getting enoyed by it and though " enough". So he blocked you and before he did he told you " when are finished"

Well this is so clear... You should not expect to see or speak him again.

But this relationship was not realy solid.. You both have to move on.

[Asker]

The reason I asked him so much is because he kept telling me he didn't know what he wanted. So my worst fear is he was travelling only to sleep with me

[Constatine]

I see... That may be a good reason.. But what give you that fear... Was he not comfortable around you or something else...

This so we can understand better.. Maybe you where just afraid.. But of something else..

[Asker]

Afraid that I would sleep with him and not have a relationship. He is religious and I know this is added pressure because I am not. It's a bit of a mess really. But I want him to be honest with me. His words don't align with his actions sometimes and he never gives clear answers.

[Constatine]

Well deary.. if you feel it like that. It is maybe wiser to move on ( although you love him ) because if he never gives you clear answers... that will never change...

Take care. 🤗

[BoopBoopBeep]

For your sake I hope so. "We have this argument every month"... yeah it's time to move on for the both of your sakes.