Would having a cuck interest you?

[robocop666]

a man to serve the relationship yet not take part? I don't understand how people can like this

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+1 y

Oddly no women seem to like this only a small minority of men.

[dynamicyandere]

Cuckholding is a very specific fetish and your mind has to be wired a certain way to get off on that.


I personally have no interest in being a cuck as I prefer to be the one holding the power.


But, there are men (and women) who genuinely enjoy being in a submissive role inside (or outside) the bedroom.


And with submission, there are other layers that one may have — different kinks.


Humiliation and degradation are examples of some of those kinks. Some people genuinely enjoy being humiliated and degraded by their partner.


Now, if you take it a couple steps further, you can arrive at cuckholding.


I believe cuckholding bridges from humiliation and degradation and disrespect (all consensual), and what’s one of the ways one can humiliate, degrade, and disrespect?


Cheating. Cheating behind their back or even right in front of their eyes.


But, if a guy is already into submission, humiliation, degradation, disrespect, and cheating — if all those things turn him on and he genuinely enjoys all those things, then it becomes a consensual thing.


At this point, a man is officially a cuck. They genuinely are sexually aroused by the thought of their woman f*cking other men, all while being treated as inferior.

[Billlewis]

Very, very well stated, Sir! Thank you so much for your prescient description of this exciting lifestyle, as well as for not passing judgment on those of us who enjoy it. You can date my mistress anytime!

[dynamicyandere]

@Billlewis Thank you very much. You’re welcome. I’m glad you enjoyed it. 🙂

I’m into D/s and BDSM, and I have friends in that community that are all wired uniquely in what fulfills them in a relationship.

So, I don’t pass judgment on any kink or lifestyle as long as it’s safe, sane, and consensual. 🥂

[Tim2nice]

As with lots of things the spectrum is wide, so it’s not as simple as you paint it. I like watching and taking part but I’m not into humiliation, degradation or whatever. And wasn’t into it until recently so I’m not sure it’s a wiring thing. As a matter of fact, every male, even the most macho with a 12 inch monster penis would have a hard on seeing his wife/girlfriend with another man, so technically everyone is a cuck to a greater or lesser degree

[Billlewis]

@Tim2nice I read your comment about wanting to have another guy get your wife pregnant;)

[dynamicyandere]

@Tim2nice For sure. I only illustrated one possible path. There are many paths one may go to arrive to the cuckhold fetish. Another path may actually be having a great fear of one’s partner cheating. They fear it, and they know they do not have control of whether their partner cheats or not, so in order to regain a sense of control, they choose to embrace it and turn that fear into something they want. Then, they no longer fear it, because it has become something they like rather than something they fear.

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

AMEN!

[Adaeva]

Most men are cucks and they never know it because when their wife encounters a much hotter guy and the situation and if the timing is right, 90% will have sex with the hot guy. However, she will not tell her husband and in 97% of the cases, he has no possible way of knowing.

[dynamicyandere]

@Adaeva, in terms of the dictionary definition, yes. Many men have wives who have had affairs that’s they did not know about, making the husband a cuck technically.

As for the cuckhold fetish though, those who are aroused by that situation, it definitely is still a minority that fetishize the situation of their partner cheating on them.

[Adaeva]

I'm aware there is an attempt by some to define cheating as infidelity and cuck as a husband who gives approval for his wife to have sex with other men. Currently, that is not the definition but in time it may be the definition if it becomes common usage.

[Lynx122]

I think it's kinda hot to think about having sex with someone elses woman while she's telling me how I'm so great compared to her husband or whatever. But it's not a fantasy I'm really focused on and I don't know if I'd do it in real life. They'd have to do a lot of work to make me feel comfortable with it XD But if I'm in a realtionship I wouldn't bring another guy in just to humiliate him or something like that. I'd rather have privacy and enjoy the time together.

[robocop666]

you want cheating. This is different. A cuck comments below. billlewis ask him

[Lynx122]

No wtf? What I described is part of cuckolding which is what you were talking about.

[robocop666]

I have had women try to cheat on their partners with me. Some were seriously dam hot. All interactions went wrong. i think this is a good thing as I don't want to be injured.

[Lynx122]

In cuckolding the man is in on it so it's not like other cheating. But I understand the situation could get messy that's why I said I'd be hesitant to do it.

[Adaeva]

Cuckoldry is the fate of males, including human males, the world over. In study after study of species after species, the idea that females are naturally devoted to their one and only, has fallen to growing evidence that many of the world's supposedly monogamous females are guilty of their share of indiscretions.

Sometimes, males appear to keep track of such things as strange males lurking around the territory or the amount of time the female spends out of sight to assess the likelihood that the female is mating with another male. Females, meanwhile, appear to go to great lengths to keep any transgressions secret, sneaking copulations when their mate is not around and even soliciting copulations from other males in their mate's presence only to make a grand show of rejecting them.

[love_conquers_lust]

My god. What have we done to the next generation? I feel like Pandora’s box has been opened.

Whatever your endeavors, get that diploma and go to college. It’s worth it.

[Adaeva]

@love_conquers_lust We probably have it better than any past generation. 8,000 years ago 17 females for every one reproduced. About 5% of men had all the women so it was bad for 95% of men.

I have very good grades and I intend to go to college.

[Billlewis]

You are so incredibly magnificent, Goddess...

[Billlewis]

@love_conquers_lust So now, we can't give someone a compliment, because they're underage? Okaaay...

[love_conquers_lust]

en.m.wikipedia.org/.../Quaternary_extinction_event

We might have over hunted. Something environmental might have happened. Human population dropped a lot. Most likely due to global starvation.

Anyway, these dudes on here deserve it with the way they’ve been acting on here.

[Adaeva]

@love_conquers_lust The Toba eruption 74,000 years ago may have been the last time there was a significant drop in the human population. After Toba the human population dropped from 50,000 to 100,000 to 3,000 to 10,000 and possibly as low as 1,000 breeding pairs. Since then the human population has increased by a factor of one million or greater. Therefore, research before making ridiculous statements.

[robocop666]

no the real reasons why population drop is kept secret but I know what it is. Remember when you were a kid and you lied to your friends to say santa is coming. Thats what that is.

[Adaeva]

I only have to watch a football game with 70,000 fans to see that the population is greater than it was after Toba.

[love_conquers_lust]

I’m just googling stuff. Not an expert. Made my own assumption and conclusion on population drop from declining fauna and environmental factors.

On selective breeding 8,000 years ago:
psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success

Rough timeline of events:
https://encyclopedia.pub/entry/32192

Conflicting evidence of Toba eruption:
www.smithsonianmag.com/.../

If you have better online sources, I’d peruse them.

[Adaeva]

@love_conquers_lust The third link about Toba is interesting making me wonder if Toba was bad as some sources claim. DNA evidence suggests that, after Toba, there were not more than 10,000 breeding pairs. However, if DNA is not definite proof, there may have been a lot more than 10,000.

The first link shows that humans can be like horses and lions where 5 to 20 percent of males get all the females. The other weaker males have to do without.

[love_conquers_lust]

I think what’s remarkable is if that’s true, just how close out species was to extinction. What if there were species that did go extinct that we don’t know about? What if our ancestors had multiple progenitors? Where do we draw the line at what a species even is with genetic sequencing? That’s where the race doesn’t exist stuff comes from.

I don’t know if we’ll ever be able to answer it. I’m surprised you’re even thinking about this stuff at your age. I was more concerned with sports, video games, and more generic subjects in school.

[Adaeva]

@love_conquers_lust I spend far more time watching Korea (sometimes other Asian) drama than I do thinking about the subject. Nevertheless, I am highly interested in them because I am interested is life, evolution, and species behavior.

Certainly, Toba resulted in some species going extinct. However, 99.9% of all species are extinct, so Toba extinctions are no big deal.

[love_conquers_lust]

“99.9%”. I thought I read something like 20 species go extinct every year and 20 new ones pop up. Anyway, remarkable all around.

[love_conquers_lust]

I think the neolithic revolution, ancient warfare, and metallurgy brought about the event (17 women for every one male reproduced) you described. I think the article was right in that there was massive wealth inequality. I think what happened was widespread forms of slavery/polygamy. Both of which are regarded as barbarism in Western worlds and outlawed. A world of bloodlust. Look no further than the Middle East and Africa to see where slavery and polygamy are still being widely practiced. Limited rights, limited rule of law, and large wealth inequality as well as access to less OF it. I think that was the reason for the rise of the first Abrahamic religion in Judaism, to be kinder to women. I think Christianity was an offshoot that took it even further and was widely embraced in Europe and throughout the world as the basis for Western societies. I think Islam was a backlash to it, a more primitive religion focused on returning to the old ways. I think that’s why Islam has such high conversion rates to atheism with their poor treatment of women.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AvFl6UBZLv4

I think a society is measured by how well it treats its most vulnerable members. The correlation seems to be, the better women do, the more advanced and modern the society is. Raising women up correlates with raising both genders up.

I think your conclusion is more a possibility than ever in modern times. Our increasing equalization of genders, rights for both genders, less reliance on physical labor, and greater amounts of wealth through technology has made that possible.

[Adaeva]

@love_conquers_lust That is a most interesting video.

[robocop666]

Religions are going extinct. As we advance we abandon religion. Educated people are generally not religious.

[Adaeva]

Some educated people are religious but generally, they are not. However, many people in the world are not educated, They are in Japan and South Korea, and perhaps in China. I don't know about China. Very few people are educated in the USA. Attending public schools for 12 is not being educated. In fact, the purpose of public schools is not educated. The purpose of public schools is indoctrination and to make children grow up to be obedient serfs, who never question authority. And, public schools did it very well. Look at all the people who wore those worthless masks, and many fools still are.

[love_conquers_lust]

@robocop666 US law is based in Christianity. It’s been absorbed into it. Islam is absorbed into Shariah Law. Islam has no place in the Western world. A novelty that can’t be practiced. We don’t beat women.

A majority of the educated are quite religious. The lazy tend to be unreligious. They don’t bother to question. It’s actually what @adaeva said, as kids become more indoctrinated, they question less. They also become less religious in Christianity.

Science doesn’t answer everything. Neither does atheism or agnosticism. There is no scientific equation or doctrine from any of those that definitely says do not kill. I am Catholic and I have an engineering degree. My faith is part of the reason I have such a good work ethic. I found the laziest of my peers were unreligious. They used atheism as an excuse not to think or question at all.

Christianity is centuries of empirical data governing human behavior via trial and error. I’m not going to disregard a belief system that says be kind to women for one that says nothing matters at all.

Even Sam Harris acknowledged the usefulness of Christianity amongst all religions.

@adaeva. I was already wearing N95 masks before the pandemic. I was already stocked. I wear them for outdoor work. The lockdown and 6ft rule didn’t change much for me.

[WhiteSandyBeach]

I've never met a woman that would want that. It's a male fantasy. I know a guy who tried to get his wife to do that for 10 years, and she wouldn't. Her boss got her to do it in one day.

[Billlewis]

Really? I'm sure everyone on this thread would love to hear about it.

[robocop666]

how did her boss do it in a day?

[WhiteSandyBeach]

@Billlewis

My friend is a submissive bisexual. His wife's boss is a very dominant man. The whole dominant thing is very powerful and it dates back thousands of years ago. One day Pat (wife) asked Rob (husband) if he could go on a date with her boss. Rob gave her the green light. Her boss fucked her and the first date, and was soon fucking all of his friends.

She wouldn't do it for the man who put a ring on her finger, was a very good provider, and gave her kids. But she didn't for her Dom boss. I don't claim to understand how this all works, but that's just the way it seems to happen.

If a guy wants to get his wife into this, he should just push for swinging. At least with swinging it will make sense to her.

[WhiteSandyBeach]

She went on the date, not him. lol

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... that's so incredibly exciting! I'll explain it to you sometime, of course, it would be much easier if I could message you, but I understand your position.

[WhiteSandyBeach]

@robocop666

I explained it above.

[LunarEclipse433]

Wow, wonder how her boss changed her mind?

[Adaeva]

Women can't marry the best so they marry equals. However, since guys fuck down for sex, women can fuck the best or at least they can fuck much better than they can marry, whether married or single that is what women do. She fucked her boss for one of two reasons. She could have fuck for money. That is, she fuck for an implied promise of a promotion, etc. However, most likely the boss was much hotter than their husband and the opportunity was there so she fucked him. Unless they are beautiful, almost all wives will fuck hotter guys, and occasionally (one or more times a year to once every few years) they do fuck men that are hotter than their husbands.

[AlbertoRoberto]

I would love to meet her boss. I have been trying for over 20 years to convince my wife. I know I should be great full for having such a faithfully wife. I don’t want to be humiliated or made felt inferior but the thought of her giving in to another guy turns me on so much it feels almost overwhelming.

[Billlewis]

I'm a longtime cuckold and I generally engage in the purest form of cuckoldry there is -- an arrangement in which I'm never, ever allowed to have intercourse with her at all, while she enjoys the freedom to date other guys and have sex with them right in front of me if she wants.

[Sunssong]

Were you always that way?

[Billlewis]

@Sunsso. I've been this way for more than thirty years now, and I haven't had intercourse in well over twenty years.

[Investigator]

You say you're a longtime cuckold. Does that mean that you deliberately put yourself into relationships where the woman has free reign and you are voluntarily celibate but enjoy watching her get off with other men, and you can't remember a time when you weren't into this, or was there a life-changing event that made you want to live this way and you would have been "normal" before then?

To say "I've been this way for more than thirty years now" leads me to think something happened, a flash point occurred, that completely and inexorably altered your relationship with sexuality and pleasure, where--had that not happened--you would have been interested in sex the same way as any other guy... unless that's not the case and you just have always been naturally desirous of being voyeuristic and get off on being denied, on wanting a thing but never capable of having it while observing someone else enjoying it.

[Billlewis]

@Investigator What happened was that after dreaming about a relationship like this for years, I finally met a woman who was very enthusiastic about inflicting this kind of abject frustration on me. You see, the problem with trying to get into a relationship like this lies in the quandary of articulating what it that you want from her. So, eventually, when I met the woman who was amenable to it, it just kind of gradually developed. I never actually came right out and said, 'I want this...', she just figured it out on her own.

[Billlewis]

Oh, I guarantee you that there are plenty of women who enjoy this kind of lifestyle, but most of them either already have their cuck (guys who want to have sex with the wife or girlfriend are plentiful) or if they are seeking one, have no intention of making their wants known here.

[robocop666]

how do you find these people?

[Billlewis]

Well, living in a large metropolitan area helps.

[robocop666]

ok how do you get people to admit they want this? thats hard how do you mention this to people

[Billlewis]

Every situation requires a different approach, and many of my friendships only involve a very small portion of what constitutes actual cuckoldry. For example, if I meet a young couple who have only been together for a short time, I'll offer them a tribute in exchange for letting me listen to them having sex, etc. Only a scant few encounters are what you'd call full on cucking, but I do the best I can.

[robocop666]

so you give them something if they let you see them having sex?

[Billlewis]

I don't even need to watch them; just listening to them -- and of course, that amazing moment, is incredibly thrilling for a no pussy getting loser like me;)

[robocop666]

why do you proudly call yourself a loser?

[Sunssong]

@robocop666 Because it feels good to him. He does everything he does because it feels good to him. I don't think he was born this way though. I think it was always inside him though. I imagine he would tell you the same. I doubt he was a little boy loving being called loser.

[Billlewis]

Heck, I don't know why myself, it just feels good and it doesn't hurt anybody.

[Billlewis]

@Sunssong If you could point to one thing that set the whole process in motion, I'd say it was during the summer of 1985, when my first serious girlfriend was going home every weekend to stay at her parents' house. A guy she went to high school with still lived nearby, and they were just fucking like rabbits from Friday night to Sunday afternoon. There was no way I ever could have caught her, but then, when summer ended, she *told* me about it! Of course I was a little perturbed initially, but do you know that after she told me about it Thursday or Friday, by Monday morning, I had mssturbated so many times that my dick was rubbed raw, and I'm not kidding, I'm not exaggerating -- I was literally begging her to keep seeing him! She was pretty distraught, because she felt like she'd done this terrible, awful thing to me, and I was like, 'Don't worry about it -- it's not life and death, it's just sex'

[LunarEclipse433]

I enjoy watching but I do not ever think I could be someone’s cuck. I read of cucks cleaning up
Other men’s loads etc. I just can’t ever see me ever being able to do that. I’m not sure how I would feel if there was a cuck cleaning us up. I know some enjoy the experience and consider it a huge turn on. I guess if they cleaned my cum from someone, as long as she enjoyed it might be ok.

[DextroShade]

I could not participate in such disgusting degeneracy even as the bull.

[Sunssong]

Na I'm not interested in over glorifying sex. Plus it's just all very strange to me.

[Tim2nice]

I would like to watch my wife having sex with other men as it turns me on but I’d have to fuck her in the end.

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

Whatever floats your boat. As long as you as a couple agree as to what you want to practice and do safely have at it. ENJOY your fantasies that may turn into reality.

[EmmaMary]

No absolutely not... Period.

[BigDog1989]

If I was a republican. They love to SEE people get SCREWED

[dudeinohio]

Liberal squid.

[cuckoldphxaz]

I think cuckolding is amazing. Anyone have questions for a real cuck? Please fire away.

[robocop666]

you ever done that? this is unusual

[cuckoldphxaz]

I’ve done it all.

[robocop666]

you sucked guys off while a woman kisses them? you been pimped by a woman to suck guys off? there's more cucks on this website I can give you contact info

[HelpfulWoman]

Fuck no. Not for me

[robocop666]

funny thing is it's more for men than women. Some cucks like to be degraded by giving a blowjob to the male. Some cucks like to have a partner and never have sex with her and have her talk about cheating on them all the time. I don't understand it.

[Leititjt]

No that’s stupid.

[Exterminatore]

I’d have no interest in such a thing.

[tzdc21]

Yeah... I wouldn't do that either... Ever.

[sheikalana]

Not at all.

[MikeRJ]

It seems really unhealthy.

[RingOfFire]

It's gay.

[Nikki1989]

Not at all.

[Jmmmfi4]

PASS ON THAT

[CaliAttorneyGuy]

Lol nah.

[Sparkie460]

Not in the least.

[jahaims]

Nope