My sibling saw my partner naked. I’m worried about my partner’s mental health and I don’t know what to do. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

My partner and I were about to do the deed but forgot to lock the door and my sibling caught us (with the lights turned on). Things are cool with my sibling but I’m worried about my partner as she’s got a lot going on her mind before the accident happened. I console her and try to make her feel better but I don’t think that it helped. She said that we are fine but I don’t want this to ruin the relationship that we have. I spoke to her again and I know that the accident is still on her mind. I want her to feel ok, comfortable, and feel safe again but I don’t want to come off as someone who disregards her feelings as I really care about her. What do I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aye man, that's an awkward situation for sure. Props to you for being so caring about your girl's feelings - that shows you got a good heart. Few things I'd suggest:

- Give her some space if she needs it, but also let her know you're there for her no matter what. Reassure her it don't change how you feel.

- Ask if she wants to just chill with you, watch some funny shows or movies together to take her mind off it. Laughter heals, ya feel me?

- See if she wants to rock some cozy PJs at home, light candles, whatever helps her feel comfy in her own skin again.

- Let your sib know too - politely ask them to give you two privacy for a bit til things blow over. Family gotta look out for each other.

- Maybe a little gift could cheer her up, like her fave snacks or some new joggers, whatever's her vibe. Shows you care.

- Most important - listen without judging if she needs to vent. She'll feel better just knowin you're in her corner.

With time and you being supportive, I'm sure she'll get past it, player. Just keep making her smile - that's your best medicine right there. She's lucky to have a dude who cares so much, bruh!

[Wise4myage]

You have done all you can, so just let things be for now.

[petitedollbabee]

There’s not much that you can do other than what you’re already doing. It was only an accident. She just needs time to get over it. Nothing truly harmful has happened so she should be okay.

[Anonymous]

She is too fragile if she can't handle something as harmless as this.