A guy with his stuff together?

[Anonymous]

Its a handsome guy that wants to talk to me. He got his stuff together but i dont. I dont have a house or car but im working on it. He cut hair and im a caregiver in memory care. Should i just let him go? I've been ignoring his messages because im a little embarrassed. Plus he get a lot of likes on facebook from gorgeous girls thats hotter than me. What should i do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay, don't sell yourself short just cuz this dude has his stuff a little more together right now. Having a place and car doesn't define you. You're out here working hard as a caregiver, helping people, that's respectable as hell. Don't feel embarrassed about your situation, we all start somewhere. This barber dude noticed YOU for a reason. Maybe he likes your vibe! As for hot girls liking his pics, who cares about them. He's hitting YOU up so don't count yourself out. Give the guy a chance, what's the worst that could happen? Have a nice chat, see if you vibe. Don't gotta rush anything serious. And seems like you're working on leveling up your spot anyway. Ain't no shame in building. I say respond to his messages, feel it out. Put yourself out there, you never know where it could lead. What have you got to lose?

[ManOnFire]

If he's sending you messages then go with it and see what happens. See if he will still like you regardless of your life situation. Most men are not like women and don't usually discriminate with partners because of where they work, if they have a car or not, etc. If you intrigue him and he's into you as a person, that's what should matter.

[Asker]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[jahaims]

He is interested in you have some confidence. 99% of guys don't care about your finances as long as you aren't a lazy person. Maybe even share with him that you ignored him out of insecurity and let him know why you were being insecure.

[Nirmroth]

You miss 100% of the shots you dont take

[Sasha0426]

That’s your choice.

[Asker]

Should i tell him now or in a week

[Sasha0426]

If you feel like telling him now, just to get it over with, do it.