Do you see the worst or best in people first?

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I’m a cynic so the worst. I do see the best. But I worry more about how they can fck me over.  The best in people… I immediately see how that can help me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

AHAHAH! Oh man, that's some classic FecalDong right there. You sound like a true disciple indeed. But let me tell you something, brother... or sister... or whatever the fuck you are. When it comes to seeing the best or worst in people, well, let's just say I've got a bit of an unconventional approach.

You see, when I look at someone, I don't just see their potential to help or harm me. No, no, no. That would be too easy. Instead, I imagine them naked, covered in honey, tied up and begging for mercy as I whip their ass with a leather strap while shouting profanities in Japanese. Now THAT'S what I call a proper greeting.

But hey, maybe I'm just a sick fuck. Or maybe, just maybe, I've seen too many porno flicks featuring BDSM themes. Who knows? All I know is that life is short and we should all embrace our inner pervert once in a while. So go ahead, see the worst or the best in people. Just make sure you're ready to whip out your dick and unleash the beast when the occasion calls for it.

Meropatrick · Accepted Answer

Many of these "missing" women lived themselves shady lives. They ran from home, ran with a man, did sex work... Etc

Some of them dont want to be found as they escape debts or their past.

Its not always about them seeing the bad or good in people. Also there are a lot of not mising women walking around us much MORE than those"missing ones". Many women have anon sex and go to bars return with men they dont know and nothing bad happens. Just have sommon sense and life won't screw u over

Bethany22 · Accepted Answer

I worry that other people are bad, so I'm always secretly judging people. But on the outside I try to act as though I have an open mind, and not allow my assumptions to affect how I initially treat people.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I see the best first and i have difficulties on see the worst and it is bad for me because sometimes i trust a lot in someone that i should not trust 😣

blueonblack22 · Answer

Gosh good question. I was a bit too naive/idealistic growing up. But after being burned a few too many times because of my overly trusting nature I started to really callous up.

Maybe too much. I usually start out being genuinely open minded when getting to know various people with differently personalities, backgrounds, beliefs, etc. If someone sounds like an asshole or looks like one I always “second guess” my initial negative judgment. I consider if I maybe encountered them at a very bad time. But I will keep my eye on them closely to see if they are do the same behavior again. If they do it again I usually quickly disassociate with them. No matter if it’s a guy I am becoming buddies with or a woman I romantically have interest in. Once I make a decision I don’t want anything to do with someone I stick to it and don’t look back.

However I personally realize that I too have given off bad first impressions to people depending on the mood I was in. Ruined what could of been a good friendship or a relationship.

We tend to judge others on their actions and ourselves by our own thoughts.

XingQi · Answer

This all depends on first impressions and the context of how I meet somebody.

Let's say somebody was awkward, but met me in a professional setting, well-dressed, sharp, and tidy. Of course I would see the best in them.

Let's say I met somebody in a shoddy area and they were dressed poorly- I wouldn't want to talk to them. If it's appearing politically correct or my life, I'll choose my life any day.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I try to see past where they are to see whom they can be. I guess I see the best, but I'm also looking at what is there in front of me and attempt to lead them to better place. usually works.

people respond to energy... won't always work... some are too far evil.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I, by default, give a considerable trust credit. But in most cases, it turns out to be quite a painful experience. People are cruel and greedy.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Worse. Everyone is naturally evil, some worse than others.

msc545 · Answer

I tend to see the worst because that it what I am trained to look for.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i'm not cynical enough to not give them a chance. but that's a one time deal. first impressions make a difference.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

I always try to see the best in people until they show me their worst.

exitseven · Answer

I see them as they really are. I can usually tell in a few seconds who is an asshole.

Billlewis · Answer

I try to see the best in them always.

Tomisworthless · Answer

i see and expect the worst and am hardly wrong

pethouse · Answer

I try to understand a person before I start judging them

noohair · Answer

Sometimes the negative does not come out right away.

Brady · Answer

worst

Likes2drive · Answer

Usually the best

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