Does anyone feel that their soul is damaged because they can't be with the one they love?

[catarecute]

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i felt in love with the most cruel humain mormon and i am always greatful that god protected me from such an evil humain being who hacked my hole families phone and petrified my whole family as well as stalked me with a drone whilst he was married with children. i bough a new phone and he has hacked that as well and i see on my phone all the things he buys for his wife and baby and i pray everyday for god to stop this torture. i dont seek revenge or call the police but i leave his punishment god

[Anonymous]

What is "love" to you? To most people particular women today it is simply a form of infatuation not a service and commitment.

If you were committed entirely to them then yes it is sad. If you simply liked them a lot. Its unfortunately how life works.

[catarecute]

i am religious. christian the bible says nothing about infatuation. there is love thats what i believe in. i live my life according to the bible. not armchair psychology.

[Opinion Owner]

That is in fact the point, what most women and people in general today understand the meaning of love to be as a mere feeling such as we are constantly told by Hollywood and music. Whereas in the bible Love is a service and commitment.
For this reason when most people say marriage is about love that increasingly mean only their own feelings not their commitment and service to each other.

[catarecute]

ok so sometimes people love someone but cannot commit or serve the person because the person doesn't accept their love. i was talking to this religious man the other day and he explained that when you love someone part of your soul binds to the other person soul and if the person doesn't accept it you have to take it back. i agree thats how it feels physically. all the teachings about love is in the bible. i know god is guiding me i dont believe in infatuation as it isn't spoken about in the bible.

[exitseven]

I remember feeling exactly like that. I had a long distance relationship and only saw my girlfriend once or twice a year. There was no internet and phone calls were too expensive so we wrote letters. I walked around for three years like I was adrift in the world.

[PewDieCry]

That's actually lovely and cute that you kept pushing despite how hard it was for you. I hope it was worth it!

[exitseven]

@PewDieCry It is 3 years of my life that i will never get back.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[SquishyBuns2628]

How do y'all think Will Smith feels everything Jada be dogging him out. She legit saud 2Pac is her soul mate and basically said she's just stuck with Will as if he don't actually care for her... so yeah souls can be damaged fr fr. #FreeWillSmith

[Anonymous]

After years I moved on and now I'm with someone I learned to love. I thought I'd never love anyone else, but this man came into my life and gained my trust.

[GoodEnoughThen]

I'm confused. How is he hacking your phone? He's a psycho. Delete him from your social media platforms and move on. Be happy you are free of him.

[catarecute]

thank u yes i am happy but i can't help who i love. i think a bit of my soul has gone into him and i am trying to get it back. i know it sounds weird but its part of my Christian belief.

[GoodEnoughThen]

You decribed him as the most evil person. The way we get our souls back from bad people is to not keep that negative energy around. If I were in your situation, what advice would you give me?

[catarecute]

if you told me you love someone deeply who didn't appreciate you ghosted you founded a family with someone else didn't want to be friends called you ugly and old called the police on you hacked your family wrote things on walls around where u lived follewed you in his car hacked your camera posted porn of you took videos of you showering and stalked you with a drone. but you still loved him with so much love that you could forgive them and still love them i would tell you to ask god for advice or help because love is too beautiful to be destroyed even if its directed at the wrong person god can do any miracles he will know what to do for you. thats what i do i pray and ask god what to do. and wait for his timming.

[catarecute]

o and i forgot called you dumb slow restarted tried to recruit you in a cult and hacked your 85 year old grandmothers phone.

[catarecute]

o and i forgot posted pictures of false relationships on fb in hope that you would see them one day and get hurt. And got you to move out of your house because he tracked your address down and found you.

[catarecute]

and i forgot got you to travel from uk to france to germany and back to uk and pressed the alarms of two hotels to get you out to harm u as well as stalk you on a train.

[catarecute]

but even after all that you still loved him and couldn't help it i would say just leave everything in the hands of god as he knows best and that's what i try to do.

[catarecute]

and i forgot followed you in the night when you took a summer night walk with a family member and having to spend almost 24h with my brother as i was so scared of being on my own. and having wear protection against stabbing and not being able to get a job and also causing me fail my degree as i was so stressed of having to move hotels as well as causing me to spend 1000s in hotel rooms.

[catarecute]

and i forgot causing me to lose friends as noone wanted to be hacked by him.

[catarecute]

he also told me by body was hideous and cause 2 of my phones to be broke and i kept having to buy new ones as he kept hacking them.

[catarecute]

he recently hacked my new phone that i bough last week.

[PewDieCry]

You should take some time out. You said you don't believe in therapy, then go to God and ask him to cleanse you from this madness. If you respect yourself enough, don't put your energy into a man who sounds toxic. What if that is the devil tempting you? You describe it as love but it sounds like you were manipulated. Would a good person do bad things? If you are choosing to obsess over him, it is like you are obsessing about the negativity. Ask God to cleanse you in the blood of jesus and burn the residue he left with the holy ghost fire. May your soul be free!

[GoodEnoughThen]

Well, that wouldn't be real love. That would be obsession, desparation, and dilusionment.

[catarecute]

i agree its more hate than love. someone who loves you won't scare you and cause you to fail your degree and hack your families computers.

[82lynx]

Not exactly, but I often feel like damaged goods that can’t be loved. It doesn’t help that I’ve never been loved in that way.

[Nifrayu]

I used to feel that way. I've changed my way of looking at that. I'm greatful for the time I had to know her and for what I learned from it.

[ProbablyClueless]

Nope, not anymore. I'm happy to say that I've done my healing, at this point.

[Radiate143]

I mean of course our souls are damaged. It's part of life. Not being able to be with someone is also life. this too shall pass.

[electromagnetic]

Heartbreak maybe but a damaged soul is far removed.

[SotiCoto]

Not applicable. There are no such things as souls.

[Luopio27]

Soul is your purpose in life!

[SotiCoto]

@Luopio27 : "Purpose" is just an artefact of human pattern-identifying habits. It cannot apply to things which are formed without conscious intent.

[Luopio27]

Soul purpose, thats how I define it but uea, we all have our own beliefs, views and other differences. Im not judging.

[LiamJHayden]

No. But I do not believe that there is only one lady whom I am destined to love.

[captain_voidwalker]

I think that's just one of the many many many things that ha e damaged my soul over the years

[Anonymous]

No because the one I love has been abusive to ne

[abc3643]

Mine's been damaged for almost 32 years.

[eagle1951]

not my soul my heart

[Charliefretz329]

Nah, I just love the one I’m with

[Anonymous]

i dont know what my soul is but ye

[Anonymous]

Nope.