Girls, If you are in a relationship and?

[Anonymous]

If you are in a relationship and the guy just doesn't bring up any sexual talk and doesn't do anything sexual at all , how would you feel about it and him?

Initially it would be nice but I won't like it in the longer run

I would wonder if he likes me or not

I would wonder if he is normal straight man and has sexual feelings or not

I would find it really attractive and nice... but would give him hints to go ahead and not be shy

A major turn off and deal breaker if he continues to act this way

[Anonymous]

If it isn't happening after a few months I would be wanting to know why.

[Asker]

You'd ask this question straight up?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd probably ask if he wanted to have sex and if he hesitates yeah I would ask why sex isn't happening because I don't want to be with someone if they aren't going to be honest about why sex isn't happening because it will make me feel like you were lying about being attracted to me

[Asker]

What if he says he only wants to have sex or anything sexual after marriage?

[Opinion Owner]

Than he needs to disclose that early on because some people may not want to get married and as some else mentioned people will question if you are gay if sec isn't happening and your not talking about why

There is absolutely nothing wrong with waiting until marriage happens I just think it best to disclose that before a relationship happens

[Asker]

Do even girls expect and want sex in a relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

Most of us do. I'm not someone who is interested in getting married. The money spent on getting married could be spent on more important things like buying a home.

[Asker]

You don't like wedding ceremonies/party etc or you don't like marriage itself?
You'd want to be in a live-in relationship? girlfriend /boyfriend relationship without kids but not husband -wife with a family and kids?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. I went to a wedding and was absolutely bored and just saw it as a waste of money. Like you are paying thousands for a dress you will only wear once. Thousands for a venue you will only use once. That money could be better spent elsewhere like buying a home.

I have a child and I am a mother, but marriage just doesn't interest me. Getting married doesn't mean the relationship will last a lifetime and if it the marriage fails than you have to go through the pain for paying for the divorce, the annoying attorney fees to help divide up everything

[Nikki1989]

Sex should just happen. No one should need to talk about it.

[Asker]

If it isn't happening then?

[Hawkes_Lady]

I guess it would depend on the exact circumstances. How long have we been dating; days, weeks, months?

If it's been days, I would appreciate his restraint to not push.

If it's been weeks and he hasn't brought up sex at all, nor has he tried to cop a feel or steal a kiss, I would start to wonder if he really likes me or what is wrong. At this point, I would probably have started dropping hints that I am open and willing to have a sexual relationship with him.

If it's been months that we've been dating and he hasn't made any move to initiate sex, not even a conversation about it... I would definitely start questioning if this guy was gay and I would initiate the needed sexual intentions conversation and ask the question of what is stopping us from moving into a sexual relationship.