Guys, Has a female friend ever fallen n love with you?

[Anonymous]

How did you find out? How did you handle it?

[BoopBoopBeep]

A few times over the years. A few times it was mutual and became something special. The other times I had to decline, explain why, and we went back to how it was, sometimes after a brief "reload" period. It's always been quite flattering though.

[Anonymous]

Yes. She did. I married her.

[Asker]

Oh, lucky her

[Opinion Owner]

But she had to wait a while because I couldn’t take the hint but, after a year, I came to my senses and asked her out.

[Asker]

A whole year?

[Naruse]

Yeah weirdly enough I'm pretty good at getting girls I'm not interested in to be interested in me. I guess I'm more comfortable around girls when I'm not interested so I just act like a normal dude instead of fucking it all up. Unfortunately I never reciprocated and turned them down with the same I just want to be friends line girls normally trot out. Sometimes I feel like I should have just hooked up just for the experience but I don't think that would have been fair to them as I was head over heels for someone else and I knew I wouldn't be able to bury those emotions.

[SportySpock]

Yeah. I’ve learned that I can’t be friends with women, at least not for more than a few months at the most. It has happened to me several times. I felt bad for the ones who were so insistent on taking things further. The others, well, we just couldn’t be friends anymore. It always ends badly and I end up being the bad guy.

[Asker]

Yeah. I recently lied to my close friend and told him I'm dating someone so I need to keep my distance. But it's really because I'm n love with him and need to detach lol sucks

[Leowolf13]

Yes was friends with a girl for a couple years. Crazy enough she was at my place, we were drinking wine and watching a movie until she started cuddling and putting her leg over me, and then she got on top of me and started making out…and more. No joke, I was so surprised but excited because I secretly had feelings for her.

[exitseven]

I am not sure. I know that she wanted the relationship to be more than just friends. I was just nice to her and never took advantage of the situation.

[Asker]

You're a good guy

[Starrrboy]

Yup all of them lol.. I handled it by not really having female friends 😅.. and obviously turned them down.. it's so weird to me.. I'm the kinda person who would either like you from the start or not.. friends falling for each other thing is just wack to me lol

[Jdodkfndosn]

Yes, two have. Dated one of them.

Of every female friend I had from 16 to 22, I had PiV with 3, oral from 1, made out with 2, and nothing happened with 1.

[Asker]

Were the ones that fell in love the ones you had sex with or?

[Jdodkfndosn]

One was the other was the one nothing happened with

[Asker]

That's interesting

[Jdodkfndosn]

I have never once experienced a friendship with a woman that didn't entail at least one person start to develop some feelings for the other at some point in the friendship.

I truly find it hard to believe when I hear more than 1/10 guys say that they wouldn't sleep with their female friends if they had the opportunity.

[Blueeyes81]

A long time ago. I found out because she told me multiple times. I turned her down multiple times. I ultimately just started to distance myself from her because she just kept trying.

[Asker]

Wow I feel bad for her lol. She wasn't attractive to you?

[Blueeyes81]

Nope. I thought of her as one of the guys.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Most of them. It usually resulted in having to end the friendship because they either werent a mental match, or I wasn't physically attracted to them.

[DaBiggestBird]

I don’t think I’ve ever actually had a real female friend, some acquaintances sure, everyone loves me what can I say, but no, I’ve never experienced anything like this.

[Anonymous]

Fallen in love? I have a couple get to know me and want to date me. But whether they truly loved me, or just what I was to them is hard to say. Personally I think it was just what I was to them, which is why I said no thank you.

[Anonymous]

Yes
She just started giving me head out of nowhere

[Asker]

Wtf lol wow. What happened next

[Opinion Owner]

I could'nt resist and I orgasmed
We then kissed for long and then I gave her oral back and made her orgasm
Later we tried a lot of things lol

[Asker]

Did you start dating

[Opinion Owner]

I mean we just skipped dating and stuff righg to sex lol
But yeah I hanged out with her a lot

[Asker]

Lol ok. So how did it end

[Anonymous]

Few crushes I can say. They used to stare me whenever I was around them. After I noticed that I feel super shy around them.

[DannyUk2017]

What is That Love? I kinda forgot...🤔

[Nifrayu]

No. Not as far as I know.

[petera1987]

No, never.

[Slim57]

Haha never.